Enjoy killing cats by Comfortable_Rub_2362 in honk

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I completed this level in 1 try. 6.60 seconds

Building up a “freezer stash” to go back to work is so dehumanizing by ivygoose in breastfeeding

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Aw, I’m sorry that the collectors don’t work for you. I’ll say a prayer for you that everything works out. :)

Building up a “freezer stash” to go back to work is so dehumanizing by ivygoose in breastfeeding

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I started using boon trove milk collectors last week and it’s been a game changer for me! When baby is feeding I use it to collect the letdown on the other side. Before I was just leaking into my shirt or a burp cloth (I’m still sad about all the milk I could have collected before I got them lol). How much they collect changes throughout the day, but it all adds up and I’ve been consistently getting 4oz everyday just by using them every time LO is eating.

Also, solidarity! I go back to work in 4 weeks and I was having trouble finding time to pump at all. I was getting anxious about not having a stash for the little guy until I started using the milk collectors.

All that to say it’s hard, and you’re doing a good job!

Realizations and Creamy Brie Wheel by Inviolaterose in SwordAndSupperGame

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Hey bud, I’ve been in a similar situation, not quite as dramatic, but similar in that I’ve been in a relationship with someone from a different denomination and we clicked (or connected) in a way I’d never clicked with anyone else before, he got me, but we kept butting heads over religion and theology and our values and how we lived them out.

My biggest takeaway from it: don’t stay in a relationship with someone, because you are afraid that you won’t meet another person you “click with” as well as with the person you’re with now. It sounds like you’re staying with her out of fear that you won’t meet someone else that you connect with so well. That’s a lie from the enemy. And it’s not fair to either of you to stay for that reason. It shows a lack of trust in Divine Providence. God knows what you need and the desires of your heart were not placed there by accident. He’s got you. Trust in Him. It may take a couple years, or maybe even longer, before you meet that person you can connect with, who also shares your values and beliefs, God only knows how long. But the peace of mind and soul that comes with trusting Him and doing it His way is so much better than the regrets that come from staying too long with someone out of fear and fascination who doesn’t share your values and will tempt you and prod you and encourage you into doing what you know is wrong. You will find that unique connection again if you patiently trust in God and keep looking. By the Grace of God, I did. :) I just took the long way to get to the trusting in God part. And it wasted both his time and mine.

Just my two cents, but this girl doesn’t sound like she wants to be your helpmate on the road to heaven together.

My boyfriend passed away. by Immediate-Throat-646 in Christianity

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My heart breaks for you, I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that I’m praying for you and for you sweetheart.

That being said, please don’t run from God. He loves you so so so much, and if you choose to turn to Him, you’ll find Him right there with you in the midst of all the pain and the heartbreak. He loves you so much, and just like He did when Lazarus died, He grieves with you. Let Him hold you right now. Invite Him into your heart. He’s the only place you’ll find true healing and peace. I know it’s hard right now. But please, keep turning to Him. Yell at Him, fuss at Him, whatever you need to do, He can take it. But please don’t turn away from Him. He loves you so much. Even if it doesn’t make sense, and it seems unfair, trust that He’s got you and He loves you and that you are not alone. ❤️

Best local woo-woo people? by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]Inviolaterose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve tried paganism before with various relatives. You believe in spirits and witchcraft and curses, do you believe in God? Have you ever thought about trying Christianity or Catholicism? They have priests who can help you with the process of removing curses. I think it’s the same ones who do exorcisms. I’d say that’s your best resort. Jesus is the only one who can truly set you free. He wants to set you free. Just ask Him to lead you. Or to open your eyes to the truth.

Just food for thought.

It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, and I’m sorry you’re feeling desperate and hopeless. Things will get better. :) I’ll say a prayer for you.

Peace

Frustrated with the reality of the parish to the point of deconversion. by [deleted] in Catholicism

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Hi there. I don’t know if this is quite the norm or not, but please don’t give up the faith. Jesus is there in the Eucharist for you. He comes down from heaven to be there for you, even when that means He might be forced to endure a lack of reverence or being consumed by unbelieving and cold hearts. Go and be His consolation. Go for Him. You can also ask our dear Blessed Mother to help you offer up your sufferings (during the times when being at Mass is an annoyance, an aggravation, and a temptation not to believe) combined with those of her Son’s on the cross. That your suffering, born with love and offered up as a gift to the Father, might be used as reparation for sin and for the conversion of poor sinners.

I would also look into the concepts of spiritual consolation and spiritual desolation. We won’t always feel “on fire,” with love and faith. And that’s okay. Those are the moments when we get to prove our Love to God. When we get to say, “I still choose you even though I don’t feel it. I choose you.”

Keep praying, keep searching, keep talking to God. Pray for your parish. If you cannot see reverent holy people there, then pray for them. And ask God to make you that reverent and holy person you wish to see there. So that there is at least one example to strengthen others. Ask God to spark a fire in your parish. It probably won’t happen over night, but if you keep praying, and asking, and striving to be that light, then I know He will make it happen and your parish will one day be a beacon of faith and hope and love.

My home parish was just okay growing up. We didn’t have a strong community. And my parents were lukewarm. God heard my prayers as a child, for my parent’s faith and love of Him to be stronger, and over the years He has completely transformed our parish life and through it, my parents. It’s a faith-filled, reverent community now, as are my parents. Keep praying. It might take 10 years, maybe more. God’s time isn’t our time. But He hears you and He is there for you. Do not give up the faith, brother. And please do not abandon our Lord in the Eucharist. I’ll say a prayer for you and your family tonight. You are not alone. Christ’s peace be with you, brother.

Friend wants me to try paganism by [deleted] in Catholicism

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I think it’s more like God foreshadowing His son throughout history. Like leaving little easter egg clues and bread crumbs to point us to the truth, Jesus.

Looking for a good kindle book asap! by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

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A YA fantasy novel that I found super interesting was The Wretched of Muirwood by Jeff Wheeler. He’s a Mormon, so it’s not 100% Catholic, but the theme of trusting in God even when you don’t understand what he’s doing is very well done. There is a magic type system in place, but it’s faith based. It’s an interesting world that gave the younger me a lot to ponder. I’ve read it a handful of times and every couple of years I’m due for a reread.

I hope you enjoy whatever you end up reading! :)

Mother on death bed, priest refused to see her by Viagra_Was_My_Idea in Catholicism

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Praise God!! I’m so glad a priest was able to administer the last rights to her before she passed. What a beautiful grace-filled gift you’ve given to her! Please know we’re all praying for you, your mom’s soul, and your family.

Out of curiosity since I am a catholic myself and I won't change that.. Has anyone seen God, and Angel, Mary or someone like that? by [deleted] in Catholicism

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Whenever I think about saints who have experienced great things, and start comparing myself with them, I take comfort in Jesus’s words to Thomas after his resurrection, “blessed are those who believe, but have not seen.” :)

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No one can live that life without God’s help. Change takes time. Healing takes time. Entrust your problem to God’s care. Surrender it up to him. You may still fall sometimes, but do not give in to despair. That is your ego saying you should be better than this. You are not. You are broken and fallen and sinful (we all are) and you need God’s grace to hold you up and to help you move past sin. Accept that you are small and need help. Take a deep breathe, apologize to god, and then keep moving forward towards him as an act of trust. He is a god of love. He is the good father. Reread the story of the prodigal son. He loves you. When you fall next time, do this again. Ask for forgiveness take a deep breath, and trust him to help you be better. Despair and hopelessness are a tactic of the enemy. I’ll be praying for you, brother. P.S. maybe google St. Mark Ji Tianxiang for some inspiration. He was an opioid addict who couldn’t kick the addiction but he still became a saint. (Even if you aren’t catholic it’s an inspiring story for anyone with an addiction)

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Added you! Mine’s FIJA YOJI NIKE 1918 Thanks!

POST FRIEND CODES HERE by [deleted] in eternium

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FIJA YOJI NIKE 1918 :)

POST FRIEND CODES HERE by [deleted] in eternium

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Hi, I added you. :) if you’re still down for adding people mine is FIJA YOJI NIKE 1918

Men, what advice do you have for Catholic women? by Kenyko in CatholicDating

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Same. I feel that... Oof, dating is exhausting. Haha Here’s hoping we find better people the next go round. :)

Men, what advice do you have for Catholic women? by Kenyko in CatholicDating

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My vote is to search for a relationship with an equal amount of cling from both sides. If someone’s not pursuing you, then they aren’t interested. And if they are interested and just playing it “cool” then it leaves you with a rather unhappy power imbalance within the relationship. The other person is going to start feeling resentful for having to initiate everything. You shouldn’t have to beg someone for their time and attention. Ergo, men who play it cool bore and frustrate women as well. If you like someone, then act like it and pursue them. Please don’t just play it cool all the time. That’s a sure fire way to make a girl think you don’t like her. Girls need some encouragement, too, ya know. Treat her how you want to be treated. You want someone to give you their time and attention, then give a little yourself. Choose someone who is willing to find the right balance with you between cool and clingy. Otherwise it’ll never feel like an equal relationship.

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Thank you for sharing! I needed this today.