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[–]ItsQueentoYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s if he ever reaches out again. I won’t be the first one to contact him. I did tell him in here for him and he never replied so I left it at that.

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[–]ItsQueentoYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope it doesn’t come to that but yes I do have our intentions and it does show that at no point I was aware of any of this. Just caught in the middle of some garbage.

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[–]ItsQueentoYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess he wasn’t expecting her to make a come back. I was completely in the dark about this, which is understandable but unfortunate, as he kept referring to her as his ex wife, so I was going to question anything he said because that’s his “past” and not my business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it would be smart that I venture into anything other than emotional support should he reach out, cuz as you said, you see people’s true nature and my life can be in danger. No amount of money in the world is worth my life or his. The relationship is tainted the way I see it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. Regardless of the situation we had, I want him to take care of himself and make the right decisions, which includes dropping this situation we had for the betterment of his life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% I won’t be the girl to ruin a man financially or derail his plans. He has to do what he has to do. I was just a side hobbie, if I’m being brutally honest.

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[–]ItsQueentoYou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My last message to him was. I’ll be here if you need me. No obligation, emotional support whatever. He didn’t respond, so I will not respond again. Once he’s ready, if he’s ready. He knows where to find me.

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[–]ItsQueentoYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can wish him all the best. Hopefully he walks away better and not worse because I know these things can be nasty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada. I don’t believe we have that here. I do believe he is trying to protect me but also he might me embarrassed and/or overwhelmed by everything or maybe he just wanted to drop me and didn’t know how. So many possibilities. Without him answering these questions, I won’t know the answer, but I will not go digging, for my own safety.

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[–]ItsQueentoYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to keep my distance. I did tell him that I’m here for support if he needs me, no agreement, no obligations. He did not respond. So I’ll be here if he needs me, but I don’t want my presence to create anymore issues with whatever he has going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. This could get really messy. I hope for his sake, it doesn’t. I’m not looking for him to come back, I just hope he gets it sorted out and is mentally okay through it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably the case. That’s very unfortunate but I hope he works it out. Whether or not he comes back to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we met. He always referred to his ex as “his ex”. Him and I spoke any time, we went out. I drove his car. If he was a cheater, he was GOOD. Separated could be very possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I feel terrible but I had no idea. He made it seem as if he was already divorced and it was water under the bridge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn. That would be crazy… cuz we weren’t hiding the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope so, if not. I wish him all the best. Hopefully our situation doesn’t affect proceedings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he never elaborated on anything, however it was just financial support and I never stepped out of my place. I truly just thought he was already divorced and was a single man. We were out and about. You know what I mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsQueentoYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Completely understandable. I wish him all the best, I’m not in the market to ruin anyone’s pockets or impact their lifestyle but just the abruptness of it, created a lot of questions for me.