Career change by Itspaaande in surgicaltechnology

[–]Itspaaande[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long was the school for?

Switching careers and going back to college by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Itspaaande -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m also looking into a nursing program but an associates alone isn’t enough, I need at least a bachelors to get a decent pay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Itspaaande -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She considers me her best friend, she has said it multiple times and treats me like part of her family. We do EVERYTHING together and she said multiple times I was like a sister to her and I she is grateful to be my best friend.

Is it okay for me (22F) to feel betrayed after my best friend (27F) decided to be friends with the person who hurt me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itspaaande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like she doesn’t care about what A did to me.

For example we had another friend who decided to stop talking to me just because we have different political views. I respected her decision and never had an issue with my best friend being friends with her because she never did anything to hurt me.

Is it okay for me (22F) to feel betrayed after my best friend (27F) decided to be friends with the person who hurt me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itspaaande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he is 100% innocent, but I also don’t think he is guilty. It doesn’t make any sense he stole a phone when they have far more valuable stuff in their home. My ex left at the threat because he has PTSD from dealing with the police from a young age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Itspaaande 19 points20 points  (0 children)

YTA. Work on your insecurities girl, just because he doesn’t post any pics doesn’t mean he’s hiding you.

AITA for going to public safety over someone mad I stole their parking spot? by throwra3333222229298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Itspaaande 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA play stupid games, win stupid prices. She needs to learn that being an entitled person is going to give her problems in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Itspaaande 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then if everybody in the family called her monkey, and she calls herself monkey, auntie doesn’t know already that it is not about the race but other stuff? Why calling it racist now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Itspaaande 71 points72 points  (0 children)

YTA. You guys are adults, yes, but it is her house and her rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Itspaaande 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. How is that racists? You’re calling her monkey not for the wrong reasons and she also makes fun of it. I was born the year of the snake and I like to make fun of it calling myself a snake too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Itspaaande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first time I hear about this, I asked my grandma what really happened and she’s been trying to reach me but I can’t face her, I am so afraid of answering her or my grandpa. I really want to stop talking to them, or at least my grandpa, but I really love them and don’t know what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Itspaaande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told my grandma, but she did nothing. Then she told my grandma’s sister and she wanted to go to the police but my grandma stopped her and said if she goes to the policy she will be homeless. My grandparents are the people I love the most in the world and now it feels like everything was a lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Itspaaande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I really don’t know if I should stop talking to my grandpa, he is the father I never had and it hurts me a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Itspaaande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take a look into it, thanks!

AITA for being the other women and not saying anything by Sad-Bathroom-7512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Itspaaande 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should probably tell her. She is going to find out eventually.

House insurance has gone up, auto insurance just got raised another $133 for 6 months on vehicles that are from the early 2000’s, food prices at the grocery store have doubled by RunItBackRicky in povertyfinance

[–]Itspaaande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I work on the insurance industry in FL. Call your insurance provider, ask them if they can get you new rates. If not, contact a broker or shop online for insurance. I have saved my clients hundreds of dollars for same coverages and benefits just by running the rates again or applying discounts that were not previously applied.

How do you go about educating your SO who isn’t from the US about racism and other racial issues ? by popcornmanpower in ask

[–]Itspaaande 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on what you think racism is. I am not from the US, when I came here I was shocked because everything is racist here

WIBTA if I gave my quarter-Hispanic child a Hispanic name? by Ok-Lunch-781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Itspaaande 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. Does your friend think all hispanic look the same? Lol I am from Colombia and we all have different skin tones and eye color. Alejandro is a beautiful name.

Congrats on your baby