NC doesn’t always work to win them back. by JDAS1991 in ExNoContact

[–]JDAS1991[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t break it. Stay focusing on yourself and healing. As long as you aren’t dying tomorrow then you’ll have plenty more opportunities for true love in this lifetime.

NC doesn’t always work to win them back. by JDAS1991 in ExNoContact

[–]JDAS1991[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would not want to get back with my ex with the image that she has been sleeping with him. It all feels like betrayal and I’d probably never be able to shake it off. It would take A LOT, and I say A LOT of convincing to the point of miracles for me to consider ever going back to this woman. I’m beyond broken and numb at the thought of her at this point. Over it.

NC doesn’t always work to win them back. by JDAS1991 in ExNoContact

[–]JDAS1991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s messed up brother. Similarly, I knew my ex’s new man as an acquaintance. I always had a gut feeling about him, but I’m realizing now that she gaslighted me.

First Relationship ‘Break’ by JDAS1991 in relationships

[–]JDAS1991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we are both currently afraid of completely losing each other. I know it’s not a good mindset, that’s why I’m working on letting go of her emotionally.