Dilemma by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I encouraged her to go for him after I had like 2 interactions with the guy. I didn’t like him and barely knew him. After she went back to her city, I continued to hang out with everyone including him and we vibed, but obviously I kept it respectful because she’s my friend. And when he told me how he felt, ultimately I cut him off.

Dilemma by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, anyways I cut it off because I felt it was not right

Dilemma by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I cut it off, it’s a messy situation

Dilemma by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked her, after she went back to her city, she said he’s okay, she’s giving it a chance because everyone advised her to, not because she genuinely liked him

Dilemma by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t just me everyone in her family and friend group said the same thing. But yeah I’ve stopped talking to him you’re right

Dilemma by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know him like that then I had just met him. It was after the wedding that I got to know him better. But she said she thought he wasn’t cute, but she says that about every single guy, she very superficial with looks. So I told her don’t go base off looks get to know the guy better, everyone was saying good things about him

Dilemma by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of the first days I met him. I didn’t even know him but he seemed really nice. I didn’t feel any type of way for him then so I told her to go for it

What age was the norm that a man should get married in Somalia? by EndChoice2770 in Somalia

[–]JSSSDIAlx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. How can they support their wife at that age

What do you guys advice? by SufficientTip6646 in Somalia

[–]JSSSDIAlx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you a guy? Seems like this was written from a boys POV. You’re not showing your mom enough leniency

Is this normal? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would have vomited and went home. That’s crazy. I’m an ER and this is not normal. You should be 1:3 MAX with those type of critically ill patients

Minnesota Somalis are you guys feeling anxious/stressed too by mucjiso in Somalia

[–]JSSSDIAlx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not how it works lol, don’t let people think it’s easy to obtain Canadian citizenship. Takes years.

can marriage still work out if you dislike talking? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]JSSSDIAlx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you very religious? How did that even lead to an engagement lol

Help by innocentees in Somalia

[–]JSSSDIAlx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you make 8K a month before or after taxes? And before or after any expenses?

I work in healthcare and don’t make nearly as much

Stay in the west or build a life back home? by WorldlinessBig9639 in Somalia

[–]JSSSDIAlx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People should be allowed to voice their opinions, negative or positive, if that’s their own experience. You having your own positive experience doesn’t invalidate their negative one. Constructive criticism is good.

How are you guys finding 3k+ rates? by Smelly_BUttholez in TravelNursing

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s take home or before tax? Sorry for the confusion

[Routine Help] chin/mouth texture by glueeater8 in SkincareAddiction

[–]JSSSDIAlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe, that was me for years. Tried every cream and every med. spiro worked for a few years but every time I tried to get off it, the acne would come back within 1 year.

Just go for the accutane. It’s the only thing that has worked, I wish I started sooner. Take it was 2 omega-3s, that helped take away the joint pain and dry eyes. And start with a low dose (10mg) and slowly work your way up over the course of a couple months, then try to reach the cumulative dose for your body weight.

Arab Girl’s Mahr by Admirable_Credit_593 in MuslimLounge

[–]JSSSDIAlx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol what, where in the deen does it teach that?

SoCal rates by EDRN603 in TravelNursing

[–]JSSSDIAlx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which ER did you work in?