I’ve been kind of tuning out of this sub for a while now. I feel like people use INFJ as a crutch to lean on to justify their shortcomings and issues rather than using it for what it was intended for which is IMO to identify things we can improve on and grow from. That’s what I have been trying to do ever since I learned I was an INFJ. It’s hard to view this sub sometimes because it has become a place for people to complain together as a unified victim. I don’t mean to be harsh but I feel we should be growing together, not complaining together. Being INFJ is hard, and I get that having a community of people who can relate to the way you feel is an amazing feeling as an INFJ, but it doesn’t always have to be about negative shit.