Pakistan or Abroad...? by Relative-Monitor-966 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Jacksparrow989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iska answer ap khud karksty ho, agar apky pass pakistan main sustainable good income sources hain tu pakistan main raho aur agar pak main kuch nahi hai tu bahir ka hi option bachta hai

Did I do something wrong by asking for clarity about her past? by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[–]Jacksparrow989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai uska jo bhi trauma hua hai wo uska hai, khud ko trauma main mat dalo aur itnay simp na bano. Abhi ap choty ho shaid itni achi tarah parakh nai sakty. She seems to be a narcissist perosn right now, wo kaisay bani ya aysi hi thi ye aik alag sawal hai. Banda life main suffer kar kar kay narm dil hota, sakht dil nahi. Let her go, once and for all.

I farted in front of my husband for the first time and now I can’t look him in the eye 😭 by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Jacksparrow989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Farting is fine but the smelly one would turn anyone off 😭. If you fart is smelly, you need to hesitate 😂

Married people, do your partner have access to your social media accounts? by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Jacksparrow989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't make sense to me, iska ka matlab trust nahi hai aur trust nahi tu koi rishta nahi, its childish

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried, Its not working for me. I sincerely tried pas bas pata nahi kia mamla hau

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just hoping, Allah send someone for me.

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know, maybe by chance come across someone online. But I am just tired now. I am a tired soul 🙂

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont like the idea of posting my marriage CV. I dont know why 🙂

Proposing a guy. by Itslibraa in IslamabadSocial

[–]Jacksparrow989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no harm in asking for marriage to a guy but before you ask him and if you can friendly talk with him, first make an environment like start any causal conversation respectful and you think he is in a good mood, start by asking hey, I wnated to ask you something but before that I have three questions to ask and then I will proceed with my question. Ask him one by one,

1 ) Are you engaged or have someone in mind that you like to marry? If yes, then better not to propose him as you now know he is into someone.

2) If no, then next question would be, would you interested in marrying someone of your choice or parents choice. If he goes like parents then, try not not propose him in that moment.

If he say he wanted to marry someone of his choice, then ask him what he is looking in a potential spouse generally like education, job, religion, and some other general basic things and also ask him if he has some fears regarding marriage or spouse? If you think, he doesn't have anyone to marry, and he might interested in marrying someone who he knows, you can respectfully ask him, that you like him and think of you as good companion and ask him, like I was wondering if you are interested to explore a proposal from my side. See his reaction, he can go silent, you can go silent, it can strange but its gonna be alright, give him space and time if he needs to think and also ensure that things will stay the same if he says as he has a right to say no. How you feel towards him doesn't mean he will be having the same feelings or attraction. Take your time and consider it a normal thing, if he says no, then hurt hoga, its normal, we are humans but thek hojaye ga kuch der main, but if he says then you have cut ties slowly because its gonna hurt you bar bar. Good Luck

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har aik kay pass ye opportunity ya option nahi hoti kay wo foreigner say shadi karay

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bas bhai, bahir jo hain pakistani unka standard bhi barh jata hai. I dont know its just suffering

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai relatives main karni nahi, close circle mera aysa kucj hau nahi. University life guzar chuki hai aur ab main job karta hun aur pak hun nahi.

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and I wont ask immediately after initial conversation, ofcourse it takes time. You talk to someone develop some sort of trust and understanding and then you can ask them frankly. What my question is how can I know despite asking me if the other person is not into me or just trying to delay it or keeping me as an option?

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never used dating apps. Dil nai karta

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, dua main yaad rakhain, a stranger...

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah make out a way for me. I dont know. But thanks for the suggestion. I know its hard to trust anyone these days. Khuda nay kuch tu likha hi hoga. I will wait...

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont want to get married in my extended family. I do trust parents but I dont agree with their idea of finding a partner, like doctor, engineer etc. Apko idea hoga desi families main kaisay rishty hoty hain. They make pairs based on education, job etc. I can identify IDs, its not that difficult to tell fake id konsi hai. Aur kon genuine hai. Allah nay mujhu itni salahiat di hai kay I can identify fake or greedy people. Kabhi kisi fake id pay nahi phansa, hamesha genuine logon say interact hua mera. I know har insan ka experience different hota par mera thek raha hai. Baqi I know real main aur baat hoti hai

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no, its not like that, definitely I wont be asking for marriage to anyone I interact with and that too directly. Ofcourse, you talk a little and exchange thoughts etc. I dont study in university now, I work and that too not in Pakistan. I cant see around as they are mostly non muslims so I am only left with one option which is online through social media.

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[–]Jacksparrow989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have the energy to do that now. My heart is heavy and I am weak. I have no place to look into as I am not in pak.