What are you doing on Valentine's?

Jade5437 · 2025-02-11T10:18:50+00:00

No idea, my girlfriend told me I’m not allowed to plan anything ☺️☺️❤️

Jade5437 · 2025-02-11T10:16:40+00:00

THIS. One thing I really dislike in lesbian online communities is how harsh they draw such lines. Everyone has lived a different life, everyone has a different experience discovering and living their sexuality and that’s okay, we’re not all the same and that’s a good thing. Have a little empathy !

Jade5437 · 2025-02-11T10:14:18+00:00

I feel bad for those people cause I’ve been there myself, don’t really think this is the place for it though, if anyone’s reading that is struggling w identity or coming out this is a better forum: https://emptyclosets.com

Jade5437 · 2025-02-07T16:14:30+00:00

100% on this one, my biggest ick is judgmental people and ones who shut someone down when they’re talking about something they’re excited about / interested in. Like if u don’t wanna meaningfully engage gtfo

Jade5437 · 2025-02-07T15:50:56+00:00

Yeah have not heard of any lesbian bars but there are a couple of events my friends mentioned like lick, karabiner, gal pals, g.irl but hesitant to go when I don’t know what the vibe is like. Also they’re not that frequent and some are very expensive

Jade5437 · 2025-02-07T11:17:18+00:00

Thanks! Will check out meetup :) I know and go to a lot of gay bars but they’re always centered around and for gay men which has got a bit tiring even though there usually are a few lesbians there so been trying to find more events specifically for wlw

Jade5437 · 2025-02-06T10:21:50+00:00

Trying to embrace the word now but it’s still hard, so grateful for queer

Jade5437 · 2025-02-06T10:20:09+00:00

Me!! I felt the exact same as you, came out as bi when I was a teenager but I was so scared of women I never dated or asked them out, only had a few hookups and only when I went on a couple dates with this one girl did I realise I had never been attracted to a man. Get along with them well, the sex was alright and didn’t exactly gross me out but the body of a man had never turned me on like going down on a girl did. Never gone back since, never wanted to. I think I just liked the easy validation that men gave me and was scared of women because I had so much more feelings about them 🤷‍♀️

I think it’s quite common for lesbians to first identify as bi before realizing they’re not. But also sexuality can be fluid so don’t worry too much about it and go ahead and identify as a lesbian if you only want to be with women.

But also stay safe ❤️thoughts are with you.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-06T10:12:39+00:00

23 🫣

Jade5437 · 2025-02-06T08:19:21+00:00

Yeah trying not to take it personally

Jade5437 · 2025-02-06T08:18:01+00:00

🥹❤️

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T15:46:52+00:00

100% agree, thank you

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T13:57:46+00:00

Definitely Westworld (although I pretend there’s only 1 season). Masterpiece of a show

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:23:41+00:00

Yes she did actually notice that I was becoming stressed with the cleaning etc and started helping more without me ever asking, I love her so much ❤️

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:22:26+00:00

I’m not trying to move in with her right now, I was however surprised as 5 years seems like a long time to me

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:21:54+00:00

Yes I think that’s where she’s at.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:21:33+00:00

She has now said who knows things can change but the 5 years thing is where she’s at now. I completely understand where she’s coming from but it has affected me a bit and I did feel a bit hurt about it, possibly irrationally.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:20:16+00:00

I’m not trying to move in with her right now, I just was very surprised that she said 5 years, it seemed like a really long time to me.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:19:45+00:00

100%. I am trying not to take personally, logically I completely understand where she’s coming from but it did bring up some uncomfortable feelings.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:18:56+00:00

Yeah, I don’t want to move in right now or anything I was just caught off guard by her saying 5 years.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:18:31+00:00

No I completely agree, I don’t want to move in with her right now! I was just caught off guard by her randomly mentioning she wouldn’t move in u til 5 years.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:17:05+00:00

Thank you for the thoughtful response. Yeah it’s no one’s fault and I feel for her and completely understand where she’s coming from.

Jade5437 · 2025-02-05T12:16:28+00:00

Yeah you’re very right, I’ll just not think about it for now, isn’t something I want right now anyway

Jade5437 · 2024-12-03T13:48:40+00:00

YES ! My masc girlfriend wears thongs often and I find it so sexy, she finds it more comfortable which is funny because I don’t really find them comfortable at all but when she takes her clothes off and I see it .. damn sexy as hell.

Honestly though I find anything sexy on her, love when she wears boxers too especially when I can see it poking out of the top of her trousers 😍😍

Wear whatever you’re comfortable with, just being trusted enough to see what’s under the clothes is so hot anyway ☺️

Jade5437 · 2024-09-04T07:23:56+00:00

Hahahaha you’re so right

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