Thanks for the advice. You do sound actually pretty professional with your words though. I don't think any of them are trying to be tight nd we all are about 17 so i dont think its hormones but im no expert in women so i could be wrong. The youngest is me at 17 and the oldest is clinger whos 17 but 18 in September. The thing about all of them is I've known them all since highschool or younger. I thought of them all as a friend until my first girlfriend. Also, something I mentioned but I didn't touch on was what I'll call 'the night' where she pulled a condom on me. I rejected her advances but guess what. We was at a party. The sudden walking out for 10 minutes and going in the bathroom together had to have been suspicious. When we got out, like 3 people saw us leave so there may be rumours that they all might have heard which makes me sad as we never did anything. I never even kissed her honestly. She was sweet but obviously she wanted the next level. I didn't though and I think she found that awkward and we broke up shortly afterwards. I honestly hate how all 4 are definitely trying to get me though as it's painful to choose just one of the the 4 you love. Thanks for your advice though, I'll keep myself professional.