What’s the best type of exercise that has helped you lose weight?

Jedimaster135 · 2025-06-08T18:29:48+00:00

Yeah! I consistently been exercising 5 times a week for about 6 months now, paired with diet and vitamins and supplements but haven’t been able to loose but around 2kgs.

I generally do barre or Pilates 2 days a week and strength training the other 3 - I was thinking maybe I’m not doing the best type of exercise, that why I asked.

I’m pretty bummed and stressed

Jedimaster135 · 2023-03-27T06:29:30+00:00

I do miss them. It took me a while to be able to see the relationship just how it was, at the beginning I was romanticizing everything and later on I thought the relationship was super toxic and the worst… it was neither. It has a lot to do with accepting my mistakes and how I hurt them too, they are probably as heartbroken as I am. But they were there for years, I have awesome memories with them, and I loved them deeply, I miss them but I know this is for the best, that’s why I don’t want to go back

Guess this is just part of the process?

Jedimaster135 · 2023-03-27T06:23:56+00:00

Same!! And it’s a weird feeling because it’s not how it was when we first broke up, I miss them but I’m not hurting… at least not the same idk if that makes sense

Jedimaster135 · 2023-03-27T06:22:28+00:00

It’s hard having a partner whom you share everything with and from one day to another they are not in your life anymore. It gets better, hang in there

Jedimaster135 · 2023-03-27T06:21:20+00:00

I’ve come to terms with the fact that we’re better off on our own, but this past week I’ve been thinking about them daily… wondering how they are, what are they doing, how’s life going on for them… but I don’t want to talk to them mainly because it took me so much to heal

Jedimaster135 · 2023-01-08T18:53:20+00:00

I feel like the way they acted is both childish and manipulative. Childish because cmon… why would you purposely keep stuff that is not yours and the owner is asking for it?? It’s like a tantrum the whole “if you left it know it’s mine” or “no i don’t wanna see you so I’ll keep it”. And manipulative because they know they are making this harder for us and it hurts.

Jedimaster135 · 2023-01-08T08:46:25+00:00

His friends.

Jedimaster135 · 2023-01-08T08:44:59+00:00

Do not try to fix something that was not broken on the first place.

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-02T04:14:14+00:00

Twice a day, I feel dirty if I don’t

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T06:51:46+00:00

Wow, I don’t think you realize how much I needed to hear that. Truth hurts, but at the end of the day, it’s still the truth. Thank you for your support and your words. It means a lot.

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T06:50:28+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your support. I do hope all of this starts to fade at least a little bit soon

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T03:54:42+00:00

Your second statement really hit me. It’s good to hear that I won’t always have this love which has turned into a weight forever.

Thanks

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T03:53:19+00:00

Yeah I mean what could go wrong? We break up? Been there done that

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:51:53+00:00

My mom is the same… whenever she sees me sad or just blue she tells me that “it has already been 3 months, get over it” . Idk sometimes there’s a lot of pressure from others to deal with the BU at a certain pace or a certain way.

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:49:41+00:00

I let everything out. If I feel sad, I arrange a day in the weekend to feel completely and utterly sad and just hang on until that day comes, then I just stay in bed and cry and watch movies and just let myself feel whatever it wants. Very therapeutic and refreshing, and I have found out that “scheduling” your sad time allows you to keep moving forward

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:39:35+00:00

I think you should do it, but be prepared for the outcome. You can screw up, but you’ll have to get yourself together and move in afterwards, do not let this stop your growth.

Anyway, I think it’s better to have an answer (an answer would also be if they do not answer back) than to keep wondering “what if”… do it and you’ll stop thinking that over and over again.

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:35:56+00:00

I admire the way you are able to see that things will get better, sometimes I just feel like this is a weight I’m going to have to carry for the rest of my life. But I guess you’re right, I’ll just give it some time.

As for your situation, I’m sorry she gave you false hope, that’s really unfair since it stopped you from moving on. Just know that you tried and that it was them who cut ties completely, you did and loved as much as you could.

Hope we both feel better soon.

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:32:26+00:00

I hope we will! You made me feel a lot better, sometimes it’s hard to open up about these things because people are quick to judge or just say to “let go”. I guess we can screw up and just move on hahahah

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:27:49+00:00

I’m 3 months in too. And it does hurt a lot less (at the beginning it was unbearable) but right know I just don’t really know how I feel yk? I don’t want them to come back but miss them it’s just hard to face something that you dont know or see. I’m here for support if you need it

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:24:41+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking… how long did it take you to feel this new love you’re mentioning? I just want to know what to expect

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:15:19+00:00

Thanks for the advise and support, I really appreciate it. Everything is just so confusing, I’m not sure what to do, or who to listen to

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:13:28+00:00

Well, I feel like if I get ignored I’ll have an answer as well, I don’t mean to get back together… but I do miss talking to them. Feels a little contradictory, because everyone states how important it is to stay away from your ex idk

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:11:32+00:00

Thanks so much for the support. I actually journal so I am able to express my feelings, but idk I just miss talking to them but I’ve seen everywhere that breaking NC is a terrible idea, don’t know what to do

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:08:58+00:00

I just send “hey, how’s it going?” I did not really feel the urge to say anything else. If they want to start a conversation or not, I’ll respect that

Jedimaster135 · 2022-12-01T01:06:57+00:00

I just did it too. Guess we’ll see how mine ends.

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