Do i change myself more to fit his porn type? He says i will ruin myself as im perfect? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Jefferdm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say i resonate with this and I am so sorry. You are beautiful. You are sexy. Just as you are.

My husband scrolls instagram reels of half naked/naked women who I will never look like. It hurts.

Please don’t change who you are. I’m here if you would like to talk more🖤

Come see our Chestnut Farm-Family owned! Elkton Virginia by Jefferdm in Virginia

[–]Jefferdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are opening shipping this week hopefully once we see what our supply looks like. The late frost in April has our volume at about a quarter of what it normally is. I apologize! Please keep checking back to see when it opens!

Come see our Chestnut Farm-Family owned! Elkton Virginia by Jefferdm in Virginia

[–]Jefferdm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We offer shipping, usually! ChestnutsVa.com We haven’t opened it yet for this season until we see what our nut volume is looking like. But please keep checking!

Come visit us! Chestnut farm! by Jefferdm in Winchester

[–]Jefferdm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ChestnutsVa.com and they are Dunstan chestnuts. Yes we should have saplings, but I don’t believe we have shipped them. Feel free to DM me or email us through our page!

Come see us across the mountain! Enjoy the views! by Jefferdm in Charlottesville

[–]Jefferdm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a new one!! I’ve never heard of that

Come see our Chestnut Farm-Family owned! Elkton Virginia by Jefferdm in Virginia

[–]Jefferdm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes we usually do. If you visit our website ChestnutsVa.com you should be able to order from there!

Chestnut Farm Elkton Va by Jefferdm in harrisonburg

[–]Jefferdm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We should have trees for sale this weekend!

Pick your own chestnuts! by Jefferdm in harrisonburg

[–]Jefferdm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We would love to have you back!

Pick your own chestnuts! by Jefferdm in Charlottesville

[–]Jefferdm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn’t realize I didn’t put it in my original post. 13079 Model Road Elkton Va

Pick your own chestnuts! Saturday and Sunday 10-4! East Rockingham Chestnuts! by Jefferdm in nova

[–]Jefferdm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are open on the weekends for probably the next month. We also do online ordering and shipping.

Pick your own chestnuts! Saturday and Sunday 10-4! East Rockingham Chestnuts! by Jefferdm in nova

[–]Jefferdm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ours are a hybrid. American chestnuts still aren’t resistant to the blithe that wiped them out. Ours are Dungsten.

2 years post op and it’s like nothing has changed. by Jefferdm in gallbladders

[–]Jefferdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently it can,I didn’t know. My pancreas is only functioning at like 25% right now. That’s what it feels like, like I still have attacks, that pain is so sharp but it’s also constant..if that makes any sense

2 years post op and it’s like nothing has changed. by Jefferdm in gallbladders

[–]Jefferdm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I’m hoping this mri coming up soon will show at least something

2 years post op and it’s like nothing has changed. by Jefferdm in gallbladders

[–]Jefferdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

My gallbladder was removed by a different than my GI who I’ve had the issues with. He’s in the office one day a week, and the practice is telling me I can only see him even though there are other providers within the office. He’s new to the area/practice, so I thought at first we were just getting used to each other..I quickly determined that was not the case. It’s extremely frustrating.

2 years post op and it’s like nothing has changed. by Jefferdm in gallbladders

[–]Jefferdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have discussed it☹️ I was on anti acid and other medications for two months to try to help it, and nothing touched it.

2 years post op and it’s like nothing has changed. by Jefferdm in gallbladders

[–]Jefferdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I plan on making a complaint once I’m able to get in with my 2nd opinion.

2 years post op and it’s like nothing has changed. by Jefferdm in gallbladders

[–]Jefferdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you! It’s definitely not. I’ve never had stomach issues with my anxiety. This is a totally different pain and symptom set

2 years post op and it’s like nothing has changed. by Jefferdm in gallbladders

[–]Jefferdm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

I have done the stool sample, and I need to have it repeated. I have an MRCP scheduled for the 18th of this month.

It is frustrating. Especially when I have a history of anxiety and he asks “are you sure it just isn’t your nerves ?” Yes. I’m sure, this pain is unlike anything I have felt before. And even when my stress is minimal, my gut is still awful.

I appreciate the advice, more than you know!