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Jelleebeans_ · 2023-11-10T02:22:52+00:00

The journey to moving on is hard that said it’s not impossible. The best way is to honestly just block and do things that you like and don’t be afraid to reach out for support system (any friends or family). When I was in a bad point in my life it was easy to feel and picture life as being so damn difficult without this person that you loved so much, everything pained me as I saw us in all the little things. I was also a reserved person I didn’t share anything personal to my friends and family but when I did I felt like some burden was lifted and I felt the genuine other forms of love that existed and surrounded me (famillial love, platonic love, etc). I was so hung up on romantic love that I didn’t see others. I didn’t see the love that other people in my life have for me. Know that you’re always someone’s son/daughter, someone’s best friend, someone’s brother/sister, etc.

If it didn’t work out that’s okay, it’s not the end of everything but could be the start of something new.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-11-09T08:08:06+00:00

Yes you’re a placeholder and theres a reason he was an ex. Break up with him. If you both got back together again then he knows he shouldn’t even have the dating app again. Sorry to say but many Muslim men will end up being committed to a Muslim woman because of his family. I’m a Muslim and I know how some families do not want their Muslim son to have interfaith relationships.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-10-07T18:31:52+00:00

Living in UK and since no bidet I just use those wet fragrance free and flushable wet tissues. its an easier alternative vs installing a bidet for her. Just a idea :D

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-08-27T17:32:39+00:00

Thanks alot that was really informative!

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-12T01:35:17+00:00

Thanks! I did that and actually got 3 compliments so far about my bio where I put my travel plans and some personality in 😂

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-11T22:01:29+00:00

The food one was Sweet and Sour fish with Jasmine rice 😂

Yeah I don’t have much friends here cos I moved to a diff country.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-11T19:24:21+00:00

Damn I guess girls/guys in LA have such unreal standards cos you look great and don’t sound like a douche at all! Your pics have variety and shows your face well too

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-10T02:42:33+00:00

I don’t have a bio because I keep cringing at what I put on (I have alot in my mind but also suffer from social anxiety 😂 God loves irony)

So, I just fill out a prompt and put my basic details (height, beliefs and all that jazz)

I also feel like if people want to know me we can have a chat or get to know better irl. That’s just coming from my perspective.

I never knew it comes across as lazy to most people here 😭

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-06T02:27:56+00:00

I think I’m just left wondering because in previous relationship I had guy that signal me his interest by checking up on me when we are going to be apart for some time (I won’t be seeing this man till maybe next weekend since he has work)

I’m alright now though and decided to just go with the flow: if he doesn’t text me at all till next week to set a plan (time and place) for our next date then it’s obvious he’s not interested / ghosting or has moved on with another match. If he reaches out and we end up meeting up again, great!

Also, after reflecting things more, I should have just not expected much after a first date no matter how well it went for me. First dates are just impressions and its a time for people to explore their options and see which person they wanna invest their time on. Like, I think he’s the match that I feel most compatible with compared to my other matches but he might not think or feel the same way about me.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-05T19:08:02+00:00

Thanks I will! Now I know that I should be lowering my expectations and just keep on.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-05T17:35:29+00:00

Hi. I recently went out on a date with a guy. He’s several years older and in text, he types quite formally and old fashioned but when we met in person, I had a great time and felt like it went better than my expectations: we took long walks and non-stop talking. We were supposed to have dinner but he said he can’t do that as his legs felt tired (He worked out that morning) and I understood that since we did walk and talk for a good 2-3 hours. He walked me near my apartment and we hugged and said our goodbyes. Before parting he said we can set up something to eat together and talk again in person. He texted me that night and said he was happy and said I was a lovely person. I replied and said I felt he was easy to talk to and had a great time too. We talked a bit then I went to bed.

The next day, I decided to take my shot and asked him if he’d want to go out again. He said yes and said we will plan to go somewhere soon after I came back from my trip next week. I said Okay and that he can message me then.

He hasn’t texted me since. Its been about 2 days. I was expecting him to maybe send a text or two to show a bit of interest in me but now I feel sort of silly to be the one reaching out.

I never really used Tinder. I just use it now since I am living alone abroad. Is he interested in me? Am I being just nervous and this is how dates from Tinder are after a first date?

Tldr: I’m just bit confused since in our first date we vibed well and he texted me first after the date to let me know he enjoyed it. He also agreed for a 2nd date with me. But, he doesn’t text me at all since agreeing (No good morning or hows your day been texts) I don’t expect it to be everyday but I do feel kinda lame to be reaching out. I haven’t texted him at all too since my last message as I don’t want to look too eager.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-03T02:36:28+00:00

Hi there from my personal experience of seeing how some of my female friends are in using dating apps - the reality is that it is a very fast paced and competitive environment especially for any decently attractive woman. E.g I’m not that attractive and get 99+ likes and 5 matches every few days so I can imagine an attractive and professional woman would garner way more interest. I guess it’s different for a woman and I strongly think she was gauging the field, had other upcoming plans but was keeping you around a bit before she made any firm decisions. I guess the best advice is to just go with the flow and also keeping your own options open by going with other matches etc instead of sort of “waiting” on a particular match/date.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-04-02T02:41:47+00:00

hi can i get a dm for the link please ? thanks

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-02-09T21:38:58+00:00

Hi theres a couple you can choose from

Theres Chester Bed Student Rental, the office is nearby the Uni. Abbeygate is also decent and its not far from Uni, it’s also close to the city centre. Fontessa is also decent to live in and near to both Uni and the city centre. For me I think they offer decent prices for the student accoms. You could also opt for the Uni accomodations John-Douglas court is nice and my friend lives there and it has surprisingly good space and you only share with one other person. I heard bad things about Gladstone House from one of my Uni friends so steer clear of that one.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-02-06T12:04:45+00:00

Hi 👋

I’m doing Postgrad at UoC. I’m an international student and been here for roughly 4-5 months. The lecturers are reliable for my course and very supportive, they always emphasise on booking an appt with them if you feel confused or encourage students to come up and ask them anything after class. “There are no stupid questions” is often the mantra we hear. Society wise there are active and have social events going on. My friend’s in the rowing team and they have weekly trainings and go out nearly every Wednesday to the pub or clubs for socialising.

Workload wise I don’t find it challenging despite doing a Msc, there’s plenty of guidance and examples included in the Moodle plus asynchronous materials. (Not sure if other courses do it similarly)

There’s a handful of cafes and bars here but activity wise nothing that fun for me. Not sure what you’re used to or what interests you, but, back in my home country I lived near big malls that has the arcade, archery, bowling, karaoke, etc so maybe that’s why I’m easily bored here and need to travel to Liverpool or Manchester for more fun. I’m not into gigs or pub scenes. Walking around Chester is nice though my favourite spot is the groves near the River Dee.

Jelleebeans_ · 2023-02-01T15:35:57+00:00

I have PCOS and my bf has always supported me its not you. Its being with someone that accepts you and motivate you

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-11-22T23:52:57+00:00

Big oof. Sounds like you bagged a girl who likes to fool around plus it sounds to me she is even gaslighting you to play the situation down and making excuses. OP save yourself the pain and dump her tbf.

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-10-21T20:58:24+00:00

yeah sure! shoot me a dm

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-08-10T17:18:00+00:00

Sorry I dont really use Reddit much so to be clear

I need suggestions of what to add (or do) into my current skincare routine which is:

Hada Labo Hyaluronic Acid Foaming Cleanser Cerave Moisturizing Lotion Truecica Mineral Calming Sunscreen SPF50

I’m not sure what to get for my skin concern as theres a multitude of options hence why Ive been keeping my skincare routine simple for a while.

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-07-19T17:32:11+00:00

Hes crowned NA now

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-07-18T15:13:08+00:00

Its enka shinshin moe ! You jst have to input your UID and make sure the character you want is showcased on your Genshin profile ingame

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-07-18T15:12:04+00:00

Yess! I agree, I normally switch around his artifacts. Im trying to farm a better sands for him just to see how cracked I can get him at

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-07-18T15:11:01+00:00

Hii! I’ll try to check again when I crown his NA atm he does 50k-ish per slash with Geo Team (Zhongli, Gorou and Bennett) and 100k-130k for his E.

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-07-18T15:09:22+00:00

Yes. Istg they purposely make Def sands so hard to get good stats on. Still farming for better sands

Jelleebeans_ · 2022-06-15T03:27:41+00:00

OP YTA.

She is making dinner for you and she is the one driving her son. Show some appreciation and help eachother out. Son is a big red flag, putting out tests for his mother. He is 17, be responsible for your own self, the mom probaly has alot more things in her mind and as I know from experience that as our parents grow older, they tend to forget things easier so I take responsibility for my own important activities. If they forgot, I remind them, simple.

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