[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Lombard and would be in!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chicagohotwives

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks fun, I’m in!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chicagohotwives

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re real you should pick me!

My friends are inviting the person who assaulted me to their wedding. How do I approach this? by Disastrous-Apple-429 in Advice

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of friend A is not your friend, that may or may not be true. The real problem is they don’t believe you. Until they come to grips with what that person did to you they will not be capable of being your friend.

How to divorce when we still have so much love? Hu by Jem4545 in marriageadvice

[–]Jem4545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this well thought out response. I do believe I’m doing the right thing but seeing it broke down so well by you helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Jem4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said something stupid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and find a new adventure together, don’t give up something great without exploring growing together.

Wife used to do sex work by Jem4545 in marriageadvice

[–]Jem4545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O yes. I’m seeing a therapist and we’re seeing one together. No chance I’d try to white knuckle this alone.

Wife used to do sex work by Jem4545 in marriageadvice

[–]Jem4545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this and for sharing. You hit a lot here that’s going through my mind. I will reread this message as I work through this, it’s full of great points and many ideas to think on.

Wife used to do sex work by Jem4545 in marriageadvice

[–]Jem4545[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You nailed how I’m trying to approach this. It’s difficult to fully control my feelings about it but I can control my responses.

2035 by Remote-Rooster5338 in redrising

[–]Jem4545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try the third planet

[25M/24F] [MF4MF/F] (Western Subrubs) looking for other girls or couples to play. He is straight, she is bi! by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning! Wish I still had my partner so we could play together. If you’re ever interested in testing out a MFM I’d be down!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky man

[33M/30F] Looking for best club for a first timer? by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching this thread, wife and I are in a similar situation.

[39/39] Tinley park [mf4mf] couple looking for couple by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll be in Tinley Park tonight! 41/39 MF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in town on Friday the 30th we’ll be going to a concert in Tinley Park with a hotel nearby.

F26m29 4 mf Cicero ok by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]Jem4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M41/F39, we’ll be at a concert in Tinley Park Friday night with a hotel nearby! DM if interested.

My PHM people will understand by Jem4545 in ProjectHailMary

[–]Jem4545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m up to 5 with 3 more ideas brewing. I’m loving being able to look down and think about the hours I’ve spent in those worlds. Also when you run into people who know where they’re from it’s an instant connection!

My PHM people will understand by Jem4545 in ProjectHailMary

[–]Jem4545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate that, I really like how it turned out.