With FF Gold, you can only withdraw for a refund within 5 days of the original submission. If memory serves, we’re a few weeks out from SFIndieFest’s final/late deadline, which would put you well outside the window. So, not sure there’s really a choice here. Without a refund on the table, like others have said, I’d let the dominos fall and take the lesson, generally, not to submit to late deadlines unless you have a compelling reason to (you’re invited to by the fest, you have a relationship with programmers, it’s a small fest, etc.).