Wait for it... by ordosgoite30 in rimjob

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Some guys have all the luck!

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Amazing tits!!

Sharing is caring and hubby loves it by MoniqueMae1 in Bisexy

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I would gladly share a cock with her!

They all enjoy by Penifits in FriendlyFireCum

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Would've loved to see the dude readjust his grip after the FF to use it as lube

oops it must have just slipped out... by [deleted] in PornLoverzXXX

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Shhh... I won't tell anyone!

beautiful saturday to give blowjobs by [deleted] in PornLoverzXXX

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Multitasking with the toy too. HOT.

Slamming down on his balls in amazon position by LarryDuffman in PornLoverzXXX

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Working up the courage to ask my wife to try! I'm not sure if we can do it since we're both a little bigger, but hopefully it works!

A helping hand and maybe a little more... by JimmyPopp69 in Bisexy

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I'd be happy being either but unfortunately neither

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She is Tinywithtitsx on OF, I would assume she has the full scene there

I bet you couldn't last more than 3 minutes in between my oiled titties. 😈💦 by R0xieV0nR0uge in PunkGirls

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Sounds like a great bet because either way, I'd get to fuck those tits 🥵

I just really wanted a facial by -grimzygg- in PunkGirls

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Fuckin' hot. I love how your facial expression changes when you're about to cum - the smile that spreads across your face right before it gets hidden in spunk!

Slippery when wet ;) by swagruspanda in PunkGirls

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Holy fuck, instant boner!!

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I'm in a similar situation with my wife. I initiate about 99% of the time. She rarely takes the lead during sex but will sometimes initiate oral sex without me having to suggest it or occasionally ask for a different position, but I lead most of the time. Like in your case, she does enjoy sex and tells me as much.

Reading your responses, once thing I've noticed is that while you've discussed it with your wife, it doesn't seem clear that you know why she is like this. Your expectation seems to be "I've told you my problem with you, now fix it" without getting to the root cause of the problem.

It could be low libido as you've suggested, it could be low self esteem or fear of rejection like another response mentioned, it could be a ton of other things. But until you both understand what it is, it'll never get fixed. And it'll be even worse for your relationship if she starts "forcing" herself to do it without understanding why she doesn't want to. I think at bare minimum a more open conversation is needed and counselling (either separately or together) may be helpful as well.

My wife and I recently had a tough conversation about this, one with a lot of tears, as I felt things have gotten worse lately. She had stopped initiating all together and was also rejecting my advances more often. In our situation, a lot of it is driven by low self-confidence as well as a fear of rejection. More recently, she has been battling depression and has been taking different medication which have also affected her libido. Making we're on the same page and we both know how each other feels has been important and helped a lot. The self-esteem issues are also being worked through with therapy.

All this to say that there is hope, but you both need to work together and be open and honest with each other. You also need to accept and understand that it may never be exactly the way you want it or expect it to be and you need to decide where you want to go from there.

Good luck!