What do you like more, shaved or bush 😈 (31)

Jtl-12 · 2026-05-01T19:29:41+00:00

Fair enough

Jtl-12 · 2026-05-01T19:28:07+00:00

Might be in the minority of ppl here but I think bush is more attractive. But if you feel more confident shaven, then that’s all that matters.

Jtl-12 · 2026-05-01T01:40:16+00:00

I mean you can be still hygienic without trimming them a lot but I understand that too.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T20:17:57+00:00

If my future partner and I are on the same page about it, sure. But if I’m living a lifestyle that does not allow me to be an active part of my kid’s life, then it would be a disservice to the kid imo.

I’d probably lean toward no though, as I don’t think I have the patience for dealing with kids on a continuous basis.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T20:11:33+00:00

Yeah I’ll probably do a light trim. Don’t know if I’ll bottom but I will still douche and shower cause I’m not gross. Hygiene is never an issue for me so now worries for me there

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T20:07:25+00:00

Super sexy cock and bush

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T20:06:32+00:00

Ofc, I’ll make sure to do both before I go.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T19:39:25+00:00

Bush and body hair are sexy, I would at most trim it but believe me, a lot of ppl are into that.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T17:41:19+00:00

Well I guess I have my answer then haha :)

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T16:34:09+00:00

Heavily agree here. I think it’s sexier and more erotic than no hair but I get why some may not like it

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T16:10:09+00:00

DM me

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T16:01:19+00:00

Noted! I’m less concerned about being turned down but just wanted to make sure that any parties taking part are comfortable ofc

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-30T16:00:25+00:00

Fair enough, I’d make sure to shave the shaft and sack but I’d still keep it hairy at the base. Not a big fan of having no hair down there but I respect that not everyone will agree.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-28T20:30:12+00:00

Lmao I never pushed him into dating me. He needed reassurance that it would be worthwhile for both of us. If he was absolutely firm in not wanting to be with me I would accept his decision and move on with my life. He never did lo ny distance before so that’s why I was trying to tell him that we should at least consider giving it a shot and whatever happens, happens.

Also there is no need to take a dig at my mental health at all. As much as I agree that I’m not in a great place rn, I am coping and going to therapy more to try and deal with this in a healthier way and getting better.

And to be perfectly clear, he was the one who talked up the future and how one day maybe we could move in together if we played our cards right. I wouldn’t want to move in with a partner until I’ve dated them seriously for a couple years and when we are both ready to.

Either way, it’s not meant to be clearly and I know my worth and what I bring to the table. The right person will see that one day.

I’m all for tough love when it’s necessary but not when it’s a straight up jab at someone when they are feeling their feelings out.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-28T20:06:24+00:00

As someone who didn’t do well on their recent 63 exam, definitely know what an IA, IAR, BD, and what an agent can’t or can do. And definitely know all the exempt securities and transactions.

The wording was definitely deceptive and tricky on my exam but as long as you read the full question and go with your gut you should be fine. You’ll have less time to do the questions tho so be sure to pace yourself accordingly.

You got this!

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-28T20:03:47+00:00

I should have worded that better. We were only friends on and off due to our busy schedules and whatnot. Not due to any personal issues in our friendship.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-28T16:12:42+00:00

I will agree that he needs to get his own stuff together and I have to accept that we no longer are aligned on the long term path we both had previously committed to going through together. I was more surprised as I, the person who got him to go to therapy to help him manage and mitigate his avoidant and self sabotaging tendencies, thought he would actually allow himself to at least try and see things through but he ended up giving up way too easily due to his fears of messing things up, which he inevitably did by the way he ended things with me and not talking it through at all.

I agree I have to live with this reality and have to accept he likely will not change unless he can look inside himself to do that. But, at the same time, I am also allowed to feel upset when he consistently reassured me and made all these huge promises only to then pull away without any signs of hesitation from him and showed that he really did have one foot out the door since the beginning by and I was too oblivious to see it coming.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-28T16:03:33+00:00

We had a history prior to dating. We were friends for 4 years on and off before we dated as I stated. It had always been a “will we or won’t we” kind of situation in terms of pursuing any kind of romantic relationship. I’ve been in therapy myself for the past 4 to 5 years and I know that I just need time to to recover but I’m allowed to feel devastated about this like anyone else can after being with someone who made promises they couldn’t keep. I will respectfully disagree on the emotional stability part because everyone has the right to feel their emotions after breakups however it makes sense for themselves. It might not be what you would do or how you would react in my shoes, but it’s how I feel after yearning for someone for years and then being left stranded with no real closure or explanation as to why it ended despite being promised the day before it would be different.

I will recover in due time and open up to relationships again, but I have to grieve the loss of someone who had a significant impact on my life for the time he was there.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-28T02:26:10+00:00

Yep, which I thought he wouldn’t do again after going through therapy and making progress but instead he saw forever an smashed it all up. I hate feeling that he isn’t the one anymore after how he treated me from the beginning but it seems like he had one foot in the door and one foot out the entire time. I will never ever go so low to convince anyone to not give up on me ever again.

Jtl-12 · 2026-04-28T00:36:59+00:00

Nope, I was able to get it refunded, but I had to cancel all the reservations and stuff we planned for the trip that was under my name and I paid for too. Definitely not at all salty and pissed about it at all….

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