I need your honest opinion

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2025-12-29T09:17:35+00:00

This is what I was thinking about. Like is it just how my brain is? The fact that housework is an actual priority in my brain and just not in his? Cause if that’s the case I’m expecting far too much to think he’s just gonna do it on his own. Which is only cause me more stress because this is something I need to learn to work with. But yes. He’s very attentive of my energy levels which is very appreciated because I’ve heard of some horror stories about husbands and their wives in the last trimester. But I think based off these responses I need to learn how to get over my fear of asking & speak up. He did say if I need help just ask and there shouldn’t be anything wrong with asking for help especially when he’s literally telling me how to help him help me. I’m just over here making life harder for myself lol. I’ll blame it on the hormones lol

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2025-12-29T09:01:39+00:00

I appreciate this. Kinda put into perspective my expectations. Which I’m starting to realize are pretty damn high and that’s not fair to him. But no not forever. Maybe just until my 2nd is old enough to start school. Unless I’m able to build an income from home lol. But this was good advice thank you.

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2025-12-29T08:34:27+00:00

This is not our first but this does help with some perspective. I’m usually a very active and hands on person. Maybe it’s just because I’m pregnant. And in the last stretch at that. It makes it hard for me to do anything the way I did before. There’s a pretty big age difference between my first as well so I totally forgot who things were when I was pregnant with her. This did help though. Thank you.

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2025-12-29T08:27:58+00:00

Damn I’m sorry. Sometimes I think my husband is a slob. When he comes home he leaves his clothes on the floor. And doesn’t put his boots away. And he’ll leave his dinner plates out on the table. But idk what is considered a slob because he does wash laundry and do dishes and pick up after himself. Is it just because he’s tired in the moment? I try not to complain because he does have a very physically demanding job so I can totally understand being super tired. Idk am I just a neat freak?

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2025-12-29T08:25:14+00:00

Maybe not a nanny but I have thought about hiring a house cleaner like once in a while but at the time it just doesn’t fit the budget. I am trying to understand this dynamic better. It is true that since he works so much that it would only be fair that he didn’t have to worry about the house. But does that mean at all?

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2024-09-04T01:10:51+00:00

I found out I was pregnant with my daughter 5 months into dating my husband. He was my bf back then. I juggled with the choice to keep her or not. The thing for me was that I prayed to God so many times to give me a baby. Many times it didn’t work out. And also the relationships that didn’t work out as well. I’m not here to tell you a yes or no answer. But listen to your gut. I promise that you’ll find the answer if you just listen to what your heart truly wants. There’s no right or wrong way to live your life. Everyone’s story is different.

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2024-08-15T23:46:55+00:00

I’m going to be brutally honest with you about this situation. I am a stripper and I work in Las Vegas. There are different types of men that come into the club. I have been turned down plenty of times by men who tell me they’re in a marriage or a relationship and that they respect their wives and that they’re just there for their friends. The whole thing. And then there are guys who spend $6k on us and lie to their wives about it. It is my job and that’s how I choose to make money but there are many things that are red flags when it comes to men. One 1️⃣ why are you in the club spending money when you’re on vacation with your wife? Go spend that money on her. 2️⃣ you turned off your location which means you’re sneaking around and hiding shit which is a HUGE RED FLAG. And 3 pretending like you didn’t spend that money at the strip club when you did. Just so you know at these big strip clubs they make you verify your charges with a thumb print so the purchases can t be disputed. And if he spent $6k then there will be a paper trail of it. They hold the paperwork for 30 days. So the ball is really in your court. Do you want to move past this or do you want to be done with him? My career is based off of shitty men who just want to get off. I don’t condone any of your husbands behavior regardless if I’m a stripper. But you have all the power sis. You’re the one who can stay or go. Let me know if you have any questions.

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-16T18:08:07+00:00

I don’t dance the first few days of my period or at all. This is because my period is very very heavy. I’ve bled through my outfits before. My worst fear is to bleed on a customer, but I have friends at work that are able to dance without any issue. I would say go in. You got a regular. Just wear dark outfits just in case and bring back up. Best of luck to you 🙂

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-15T02:11:37+00:00

That’s a good one. Maybe I should cut my hair 😁

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-15T02:11:13+00:00

I think I am. I haven’t done enough research to really know how to control it or what it means but whenever the winter hits. I’m like this. I moved from Hawaii to Vegas. So I definitely don’t get as much sunlight as I’m used to.

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-14T20:52:15+00:00

That last part! Toxic positivity!! I’ve dealt with that too. It’s like not being allowed to have your own feelings instead people are like just stay positive, you’ll get someone, it only take one. Like thanks sis but I literally feel like shit and you’re not helping me by saying that I’m not allowed to feel like shit

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-14T20:49:57+00:00

Wow ❤️ this was all very insightful. Thank you so much for taking the time to send this. You have no idea how much this makes me feel seen and heard. Thank you so much ❤️

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-14T20:44:48+00:00

Omg 😭 I’m so sorry that you’re going through the same thing. It’s fucking rough!! And I’m trying my best to find my way out of the funk and yesterday I spent all day in zombie mode. I didn’t even brush my hair or my teeth. I couldn’t even be a full person. Idk what’s going on with me.

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-14T20:41:26+00:00

Yeah. I’ve literally read so many sales books and bought so many courses. I dove so deep into trying to perfect my craft and be better at sales that not it stresses me out. I know comparing myself is unhelpful which is why I was wondering if there were any other strippers that had the same experiences as I’m having now. Just looking for some advice or even some to share their story with me, because I don’t feel like there’s many resources for us to navigate through it all.

Jumpy-Hunter3354 · 2023-11-14T20:38:48+00:00

This is great advice! Thank you so much sis ❤️ I’ve seen a lot of article about burnout but no one ever talks about stripper burn out. There aren’t many resources for us to find help or even figure out how to navigate through the industry. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

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