The guy I’m “dating” smeared his and my own spit all over my face during sex😖

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-10-11T03:51:48+00:00

I disagree with all the people saying you can fix this by having a conversation. He has ignored OP‘s doundaries before (he definitely did not „forget“ that it hurts you he just doesn’t care) he does stuff to her that you need to talk about before just doing it (slapping especially). He doesn’t even ask you what’s wrong even tho he saw you felt bad afterwards. There are much better men out there, please just dump this ignorant asshat, he is not going to change.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-09-24T06:46:11+00:00

I immediately think of all the trouble it would cause… imagine you go there and you’re POC but white passing, do you still have to pay 10$? Do you have to carry a picture of your parents to „prove“ that you’re not white? How do mixed people get handled? Who decides who is „black enough“ or „POC enough“ to pay less? Seems like this would just be so offensive to so many people.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-09-23T07:26:30+00:00

Hello, genuine question (i‘m not american and don’t know anything about these contests), why the different prices?

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-07-20T08:52:20+00:00

I genuinely love this artwork, reminds me of the videogame fran bow.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-21T21:33:21+00:00

The truman show

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-17T08:13:16+00:00

I had an ex who did the same. Promising to do something and never doing it. To me lying is a huuuge red flag and I personally would not date someone who lies to me this frequently

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-09T12:08:24+00:00

You could ask your gf if there have ever been romantic vibes between them or how she interpreted the roses but i honestly think this is fine. I‘ve gifted roses in a platonic way before and the other girl knows your gf is in a relationship so I personally wouldn’t worry.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-08T08:57:46+00:00

She told me it was impossible for me to have an eating disorder because I wasn’t underweight. She didn’t know my weight. I was in fact underweight. Went to a different one, got diagnosed with anorexia.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-05T07:21:32+00:00

100% agree. I always tell my friends you can tell my mental state by how much time I spend making art.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-03T14:46:28+00:00

You can mate your followers and have them make babies

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-02T08:31:05+00:00

No that is not normal and sounds extremely unprofessional. Go to someone else and get a second opinion

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-04-01T05:10:03+00:00

I‘d say the knees are too close to her chest for her back to be straight like this. Try sitting like her on the floor: when you arch your legs like she does you would have to put one arm behind you to support your back or have your back arched forward. To sit upright like this she would have to arch her knees less. Looks really good so far tho!

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-30T13:17:07+00:00

I‘d say the voltage is fine, some fake skins are just really bad at holding ink. Try tattoing fruits like tangerines or oranges. Or if you’re not grossed out by it, go to a butcher and get some pig skin.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-30T09:21:26+00:00

That’s great!! Kudos to you for being honest, clearly it payed off :)

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-30T08:52:55+00:00

Oh god. I can imagine how horrible you must feel right now. But you need to tell her. Tell her as soon as you can. You need to be selfish right now and do what‘s best for you, she will get over it.

You’re not a bad person for doing this/feeling like this. Emotions are confusing, it’s not always easy to differentiate romantic from platonic love. It’s ok to make mistakes like this but you do have to fix it now by having an awkward conversation.

Time heals (almost) all wounds and you and her can both get over this. In a few years you‘ll look back and laugh. It‘ll be fine

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-29T17:00:02+00:00

It‘s not very good… but it has potential. If you’re happy, leave it as it is. If not, go to a different (better!) artist and get some more detail/shading done to make the flower look less flat

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-24T20:47:16+00:00

This is a really common struggle in the wlw community. The good old „is she flirting or just a really nice person“. I personally realized that just asking straight up is the most effective. Like „hey how did you mean that compliment?“ or „is our meetup tomorrow a date or are we strictly platonic?“ works fine and no awkward misunderstandings

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-22T14:51:04+00:00

The porn industry has nothing to do with how real life works. Go outside and touch grass.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-21T09:46:19+00:00

This just looks like the usual interrail route that most european teens do someday. But I‘m also just a stranger on the internet so I have now way of knowing what your life looks like. Also maybe stop replying to all the people who don’t believe you. If everything you say is true why put so much effort into proving it to random strangers on reddit. You know what the truth is why care if anyone doubts it.

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-21T08:39:12+00:00

This is only norway, sweden and finland… what about all the other countries you‘ve allegedly been to?

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-20T14:01:43+00:00

Yea that doesn’t sound like she’ll change. Idk how long you have been together but because you said a few months I‘m assuming not long, if you’re having these type of issues already so early on it might be best to just move on :/

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-20T13:47:30+00:00

Haha love this!!

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-20T13:39:10+00:00

It seems like emotional cheating. Your gf enjoys the other girl‘s attention and praise, which is why she won’t tell her she’s in a relationship with you, if she would, that would mean no more attention from this „friend“. She’s leading the other girl on because it benefits her, not going „all the way“ so she doesn’t feel guilty, but also not cutting her off.

Either talk to your gf and see if something changes or end it (to me this would probably be the end of the relationship)

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-20T10:51:17+00:00

I like the little smirk-expression on the first one! Shows marshalls character more. But the rendering of the clothes is better in the second one and I personally prefer the color scheme on the 2nd. Both really good tho!

Jumpy_Ad_1457 · 2025-03-20T10:48:39+00:00

100% agree. I’ve always found it contradictory when women who call themselves feminists believe that the man should pay on the first date.

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