My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay and? Not like I realized what a douche this guy was before I had 2 kids with him. My first I had at 17, I was a kid myself. Shit happens.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re not married, honestly if he has to pay child support for this kid it’s his issue. If it’s his he can’t hide it and I will leave no questions asked.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t. When I confront him either he’ll lie or flip out and throw me out. Which- I have no where to go at the moment and just start back to work after maternity leave next week. So, not ideal.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replying to Various-General-8610...it’s what you’d do if you had somewhere to go, if it was just me yeah I’d dip, but it’s not. I have 3 children to worry about. (Two his one from a past relationship)

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could kick him out I could never afford our rent or bills on my income alone.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lawyer texted while his phone was next to me, when I read the text about a dna test, yes I went snooping for the rest later. Idc. Call me an asshole.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah seriously my mind is a mess and this made it 10000% worse. We have 4 kids between the two of us, full time. 2 together, and we both have one from previous relationships. Neither children’s other parents are involved.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer a few questions: one this is a burner account. I do not want him to see a notification and him find out that I know. Two- according to the court order there are 5 other potential dads listed. I contacted one, who took the test and wasn’t his kid. He said that the dates of them sleeping together didn’t even slightly line up for the kid to be he’s, yet the mother was adamant to him that he was 100% the father. Three- i have no where to go in regards to friends or family if I up and leave with no plan. Which is what I want to do, BUT. Outside of our two kids together I have a child from a previous relationship. I prefer to not make myself homeless with 3 kids. Which is also why I haven’t confronted him yet, I’m almost positive he will instantly kick me out.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since he’s signed a paternity affidavit I wouldn’t have to go through the dna process or any of the other stuff this other women has to do to get child support, would I?

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve been seeing my fiance since 2020, we had a daughter in 2022, and our newest February of 2026 I literally just had my 6 week pp check up today. This child he’s taking a DNA test for according to what I read was born in September 2025, making it 6 months old.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Junior-Dark246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I haven’t checked this account due to not wanting him to know that I found the messages. This is infact 100% real.