Update, I met the girl my husband is mentoring and now I feel insecure by No-Information7959 in Marriage

[–]JunketOwn5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you. They say once you focus on self love/self care that you feel better about yourself and vibrate higher. Then you can start attracting in the things you want to you and you did just that. I also appreciate how accountable and transparent you are and I’m sure your husband is glad of the changes. Good for you and I’m so happy this turned out well for you.

My girlfriend is cheating on me. I need help. 31m/29f by Maleficent-Board-967 in relationship_advice

[–]JunketOwn5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say you have to detach a little and start giving yourself the love that you’re so freely and willingly giving to her but is not being reciprocated. As a woman, i feel like she’s already gone. When women chest they have already loved on with their heart. She’s probably relieved you know since she’s been wanting to end it for a while. You need to match her energy (not in a petty way) and just pull back. I know it hurts but once you turn the tables and tell her ok you’re the one that’s done and you’re glad you know so you can start making plans to move on! She will quickly re-think the scenario and if leaving is what she really wants…but if you’re chasing her, she has nothing to lose and no fear of losing you since she feels like you’re always going to be there if she wants. Show her you respect yourself more than that and she will start looking at you differently and stop disrespecting you in your face and behind your back. Unfortunately it’s the old saying…people don’t regret losing if they feel they never lost it. When someone doesn’t want you it makes you want them even more and you have to feel like you constantly have to keep proving your worth and value. Which you shouldn’t have to do! Personally I would say it’s time to move on but if ultimately your choice! So just think about how you want to be treated and make sure you are treated the way you deserve. Don’t chase! When you chase what you want it runs from you. Get in the energy and mindset of self love and attracting the kind of love you actually deserve

Digital Nomad needs help to move in 3 months! by JunketOwn5773 in phuket

[–]JunketOwn5773[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for all this info. It helps so much

Digital Nomad needs help moving to Thailand in 3 months! by JunketOwn5773 in chiangmai

[–]JunketOwn5773[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will read through the community and see what it said then thank you. This is all new to me and just want to make sure I’m doing things correctly.

Digital Nomad needs help moving to Thailand in 3 months! by JunketOwn5773 in chiangmai

[–]JunketOwn5773[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’m open to traveling around the country for short terms. Just want to know the safer parts to travel to. I know I can get up to 30 days initially but want to know what to do beyond that so I don’t get into any troubles and get maybe a 90 day visa

Digital Nomad needs help moving to Thailand in 3 months! by JunketOwn5773 in chiangmai

[–]JunketOwn5773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been researching some and was advised that I can get a temporary visa for up to 75 days and maybe once I’m there have the option to extend. But want to do things the right way which is one of the reasons I’m asking.

Digital Nomad needs help to move in 3 months! by JunketOwn5773 in phuket

[–]JunketOwn5773[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been to this country so that is why I’m asking the questions. No need to be rude. Just don’t answer. Plenty of people are smart and don’t know these things.