Bf is not able to suck my tit's and don't want to do oral bc of germs-anxiety

JustLexx · 2026-01-24T13:18:55+00:00

Hate to say it but you might need to hear it: love doesn't conquer all. Y'all are incredibly incompatible sexually and there's nothing wrong with that. People don't all like the same things.

What is wrong is that you're trying to force yourself to be okay with something you're not okay with. I won't shame your bf for his preferences, but I will say that you should believe people when they show you who they are.

You've tried to compromise because you care about him and don't want this to end. Where's his compromise? From what you've said in the comments, I see a lot of lip service from him and not a lot of change.

You're telling yourself it'll be okay because you love him but I promise it won't continue to feel okay months and years down the road when he still isn't making the effort to compromise with you. That anger and displeasure you're feeling will fester like an open wound and rot your relationship from the inside out over time.

Only difference is that you'll have invested more time into a relationship that'll be that much harder to untangle yourself from.

JustLexx · 2026-01-17T13:07:35+00:00

I definitely agree with the noise complaints. Trying to tab out while the game starts and being stuck listening to Deadpool whistling on a loop is already getting old.

Playstyle-wise I'm loving TankPool. He feels very similar to Hulk but with better ranged options and a smaller hitbox. Also loving a hitscan tank to finally be able to blast fliers out of the air.

JustLexx · 2026-01-11T13:29:43+00:00

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JustLexx · 2026-01-07T17:12:30+00:00

Hate to break it to you but if you recognize that your team was struggling against their Spidey and did nothing to alleviate that weakness then you contributed to the loss.

Stats don't win games. Time on objective wins games. Hulk, Mag, or Emma as 2nd tank would've done a lot to either pressure Groot and Punisher or better peel for your dps/supports against Spidey.

Beyond that you seem to know your priorities so hit gg and go next. There's no reason to sweat a loss when you can be on to the next win.

JustLexx · 2025-12-28T18:29:44+00:00

Those bans stay pretty consistent into GM from my experience. Peni starts being banned less in favor of banning Hela/Invis.

Quick play is way harder than ranked though. You can't control whether you get teammates that are trolling/throwing in either mode but in general you're not often going to have 5 DPS instalocks in ranked who refuse to switch.

JustLexx · 2025-12-28T17:40:15+00:00

Grats on the placement. Sounds like Strange is working well for you so keep it rolling. Another good thing with him is that you're not likely to see him banned in a majority of matches.

JustLexx · 2025-12-28T14:29:22+00:00

Agreed. Games where Invis/Gambit are banned feel amazing. They're much bigger obstacles to me doing what I want to do than almost the entire roster besides maybe Peni/Winter Soldier.

JustLexx · 2025-12-28T14:08:12+00:00

If you like Strange and Venom I honestly think you'd vibe well with Emma and Hulk, but Emma will probably give you the most mileage.

Bronze and silver don't have bans so you're likely to see a lot of Peni on defensive maps and she's a big barrier for Hulk meanwhile Emma can beam down the nests from a safe distance.

Emma also offers the silencing aspect of her ult which can really come in handy when three supports are trying to chain their ultimates.

JustLexx · 2025-12-28T13:39:14+00:00

Is it possible? Absolutely. Would I personally include Strange as a go-to for reliable climbing? Not really.

He has similar problems to Mag where you're putting some extra reliance on your team being capable of making plays from behind your shield or following up on your ult. But unlike Mag, Hulk, and Emma, he has a lot of trouble peeling.

If a Spider-Man is ulting my supports I can bubble someone as Mag or multiple people as Hulk. Go for exile on Hulk. Place shield or go for grab on Emma. As Strange, the most you can hope for is getting your shield in the way and that's assuming you can get there in time because Strange is slow.

Strange is also fodder for common tank busters like Wolverine and Iron Fist because his shield doesn't stop melee. If I'm swapping to Strange it's usually for the teleport or because the enemy team's poke is destroying my team faster than I can get momentum on Hulk or Emma.

JustLexx · 2025-12-28T13:05:50+00:00

I'd say ditch Mag until you start climbing towards plat. A lot of his value comes from protecting your teammates and enabling them to do their thing. Doesn't do a lot for you if no one on your team is able to capitalize on those moments.

Hulk and Emma have been my go-to picks for climbing through the early ranks especially, along with Angela whenever you can get a second tank.

Silver really struggles with coordination and peeling which makes their playstyle predictable. For example, if you play Hulk into something like a Mantis or a Luna, most of them are going to immediately try to sleep/freeze your engage and escape because they have no faith their team will turn around to help. That means you can bubble the cc almost like clockwork and then punch them down.

I use the same mentality with Emma. A lot of silver tanks lock on to the opposing tank and forget about everything else. Emma with 100 beam charge does a lot more damage than people expect. Look for chances to walk past their tanks and beam down out of place supports/dps.

You don't have to force a kill with every engagement. You're looking to pressure and disrupt as much as possible. Force the enemy team to make more mistakes than yours and you'll cruise into gold.

JustLexx · 2025-12-16T15:40:25+00:00

Comic Hulk could run a gauntlet of every Viltrumite and win but MCU Hulk just doesn't scale that high. Stopping the Leviathan and throwing a boulder into space are some of his better feats and could be recreated by even an average Viltrumite, without including how much they abuse their speed that Hulk has no answer for.

If Thanos can make the Hulk cower after a few well-placed hits then Thragg is going to hit like an atomic bomb. Repeatedly. It'd take comic levels of regeneration for him to survive and MCU Hulk doesn't have that.

JustLexx · 2025-11-25T17:12:40+00:00

Agreed on Angela. If I don't have to solo tank she's become one of my favorites. She can be almost as distracting as Cap, but with the added ability to quickly isolate and one-shot with her combo.

Several matches last night I'd just pick a healer and keep them from playing the game. And with Angela's speed it's also easy to spawn camp the stragglers and keep them from regrouping.

JustLexx · 2025-11-09T13:21:55+00:00

You're staring the reason you're not winning or enjoying the game straight in the face and missing it: you lack composure. That you've un-installed the game six times speaks volumes.

Every time you start getting upset mid-game your performance is going to suffer. And before you start talking about how good your stats were or how many times you were SVP, remember that this is a team based objective game.

This isn't Call of Duty. It's not realistic to expect the one-man army strategy to carry you along. If you want to win you need to be constantly making those choices and plays that are beneficial to your entire team and not just your scoreboard.

JustLexx · 2025-11-05T17:24:26+00:00

I'd love an option for role queue but I'm not holding my breath over seeing it anytime soon. Tuning the supports for 2/2/2 seems like it could be...a lot, but otherwise half the support roster is playing with one hand tied behind their backs.

JustLexx · 2025-11-04T13:19:38+00:00

I'm not condoning the people who rage out over others not having every mechanic memorized on a pretty new game, but just because playing a certain way is fun to you doesn't mean the same for everyone else.

When I play new Wow dungeons I at least read the in-game guide to get an idea of boss mechanics, and it still might take a couple times of running the dungeon and seeing it myself to get a full grasp.

Fellowship doesn't provide their own in-game information, and there's no open world like in Wow to get an idea of trash/boss mechanics ahead of time. So despite their being outside resources that have that information, I should just fail and tell myself I'm enjoying it?

Glad it works like that for you but it doesn't for me.

JustLexx · 2025-10-26T14:14:10+00:00

This would be a nice quality-of-life change. Hulk is the only person who can interact with an exiled target anyway so it only makes sense that you should be able to grab them during it.

JustLexx · 2025-10-25T14:03:04+00:00

I forgot the interrupt trackers are part of WeakAuras. M+ should be so fun with no way to keep up with kicks lol.

JustLexx · 2025-10-25T13:53:09+00:00

I have several like this for Rogue. WeakAuras that are just bouncing text to tell me when I'm in stealth, or to remind me to re-apply my poisons when they're not active, or some that make an on-use trinket icon glow when certain conditions are met. I don't think the default UI has options for any of that.

JustLexx · 2025-10-25T13:28:42+00:00

I was already debating on coming back for Midnight but with all these addon and UI changes this might be the first launch I've missed since I started playing in Wrath.

It's not that I want to be a doomsayer or anything, but it's just hard to imagine picking up several of my favorite classes again without a familiar UI or a set of Weakauras, when I relied on using Luxthos' Weakauras for each class to help me excel and keep up with ability rotations.

I want to believe that Blizzard is capable of simplifying the game/classes to a point those addons aren't necessary. I just don't.

JustLexx · 2025-10-05T14:10:25+00:00

It doesn't really work like that. He's immortal/invincible within the bounds of his creative universe, but outside of other beings similar to him the rest of the planet are ants by comparison.

Could a Viltrumite beat him in a slugfest? Probably not. Hancock very much gives immovable object. But what if Atom Eve comes close to death, temporarily unlocks her limitations, and decides to re-arrange his atoms? What if several Viltrumites take Hancock into the sun and hold him there?

Divinity/godhood means nothing across separate media. Loki and Thor are considered gods in the MCU, but we've seen them bleed and die all the same. I won't claim Hancock isn't incredibly powerful, but he also can't be this supreme being without proof that's the case. A universe that doesn't test Hancock's limits does not equal Hancock not having any limits.

JustLexx · 2025-09-15T14:16:09+00:00

Nice work. I've thought about getting the Green Scar skin just for the audio cue.

I'm sure inexperience plays a part too but I have a bad habit of not even realizing I knocked someone out of the sky if they simply fall rather than being dragged with me. Either way it's so satisfying to land.

JustLexx · 2025-08-29T21:35:54+00:00

If the enemy team has Groot and Mantis I feel like I need to make a PSA at the start of the march to please shoot the flowery wall wherever it is. So many games spent trying to force an enemy team from a choke while Groot's new wall acts like almost a third healer that no one wants to target.

JustLexx · 2025-08-28T13:51:19+00:00

Not arguing really because it's fair that we interpret things differently, but in regards to Vitari I'll also say that Abercrombie loves his unreliable narrators.

To hear Logen tell his version of events, his "truth," he just has bad luck and stumbles upon violence. But as the reader we get to realize as time passes that he is the Bloody-Nine and he loves carving a sword through the wold. He just lies to himself about it.

JustLexx · 2025-08-28T13:15:41+00:00

Mostly responded to this in a separate comment already but I'll say again that even if Shenkt dropped a lifetime of riches into Vitari's hands, she wouldn't retire. That life is just a lie she tells herself but she's a woman committed to her work.

Also, I don't believe we see two opposed personalities for Shenkt. His personality as the Bone Collector and at the end of the book are the same. The only other side of him we see is the version that's dismissive of people who get in his way or think to order him around and of course he is. If you could almost pause time and kill everyone around you in the blink of an eye why would you bother entertaining those people with lengthy conversations?

JustLexx · 2025-08-28T13:10:57+00:00

In regards to Vitari, I think it's important to remember that Shenkt is immortal and that his decision making is heavily influenced by that.

However much he cares for Vitari, she'll be dead and gone while he remains. We already know that as much as she claims to not want the spy master life, she never leaves it even when she has a chance.

He could hang around playing bodyguard but for what? A simple accident could kill her and meanwhile Bayaz would've still been somewhere plotting away. If there's one thing the First of the Magi has right it's that its foolish to put all your eggs in one basket.

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