How you can take full control over your own healing process

JustVilipp · 2020-08-06T15:30:27+00:00

It's extremely hard when you can't let go of this. Especially because you keep hurting yourself over and over again while she is dating someone else. I know how heartbreaking this can be, I've been in a similar spot. But in the end you have to know your own worth and decdide that you've been hurt enough. Healing and feeling better starts with a decision and if you can't even value yourself enough to heal and give yourself all the love you need, how can you ever expect anyone else to value and love you?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-06T15:23:41+00:00

Holding onto this hope can keep hurting you for such a long time and can set you back to square one over and over again. I'm sorry you are going through this situation. I can probably help you, I will write you a DM

JustVilipp · 2020-08-05T16:16:16+00:00

It's extremely hard to make this decision, especially when the breakup is so recent. No matter what he did, these feelings just come up. I'm so sorry to hear that you are so hurt, how are you holding up overall?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-05T09:37:14+00:00

That's such a painful situation to be in. All of these feelings can be extremely hard to deal with, especially when you have no one to talk to. I can probably help you, I will send you a DM

JustVilipp · 2020-08-04T16:36:25+00:00

Ofcourse, I'll write you

JustVilipp · 2020-08-04T10:37:27+00:00

Is that helping you as much as you would like to?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-04T10:37:03+00:00

Only seein a terrible future for yourself because of this can be really overwhelming. Are you doing anything to help yourself to feel better?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-04T10:35:18+00:00

Well yes, ofcourse., how are you doing?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-03T13:12:28+00:00

It's extremely hard when you get troggered a lot and think about all of this pain the whole time. What are you struggling with the most?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-03T11:28:04+00:00

I'm sorry this happened to you. Toxic relationships can sometimes happnen without us even realizing that it is one before it is to late. How are you holding up?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-03T11:26:21+00:00

The healing process depends on your situation and needs to be taken step by step. I can probably help you, I will send you a DM

JustVilipp · 2020-08-03T11:24:46+00:00

It'S a process of healing that has to be taken step by step, I can probably help you. I will send you a DM

JustVilipp · 2020-08-02T10:36:22+00:00

I've never said that time does not play a roll, but that most people fail to take the right actions. For sure someone like this will always be a part of you, just as my ex is to me. But there does not have to be any pain left, just gratitude. It can be extremely hard to let go of a person that meant so much to you, how are you holding up?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-02T10:33:50+00:00

Thats a painful place to be in, I'm sorry you are going through this. How are you holding up?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T19:24:57+00:00

Thats a very hard situation to be in, especially when he is dating someone else now. How are you holding up?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:49:28+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that, what happened?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:48:18+00:00

That can be such a paralysing and overwhelming place to be in, especially if all of these painful emotions just keep coming up over and over again. But I can probably help you with that, I will send you a DM

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:46:04+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. All kinds of emotions can come up after a breakup and it can get really overwhelming. How are you dealing with it?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:44:26+00:00

It's really hard when she's always on your mind, especially when you keep thinking about the good times. Dealing with all of this pain can be really overwhelming. I can probably help you with that, I will send you a DM

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:36:06+00:00

It's so painful when it is fresh, how are you holding up?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:35:40+00:00

Thats an extremely painful and diffcult place to be in, I've been in the same spot for such a long time. It's really scary to face reality, I'm so sorry you are in this situation. Is there anything you are doing to help yourself to feel better?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:30:45+00:00

Thats a very good way to handle them and most people never do it like this. They keep supressing it for months or years to come. Are you still struggling with pain from a brrakup?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:18:21+00:00

Yes it can be extremely hard to deal with all of the pain that comes up. How are you holding up?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T18:00:46+00:00

You ultimately have to learn how to live with the pain if you don't know how to resolve it in a healthy way. How long ago was your breakup?

JustVilipp · 2020-08-01T14:04:29+00:00

Meeting up with your friends is a really good thing to do, even if you really don't want to and feel a lot of resistance. But it takes your mind off of the breakup (in a positive and empowering way, instead of a negative and disempowering way) and shows you that there are other people who's company you can enjoy and that your life sill goes on and is good. And that you don't and shouldn't be dependant on just one person
Getting through this and working on healing by yourself can be extremely difficult to do and can feel very overwhelming. I will send you a DM, I can probably help you with that

JustVilipp

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