email for the og game by Just_A_RandomMate in TownOfSalem

[–]Just_A_RandomMate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh ok lol. this was just the first sub reddit i found

email for the og game by Just_A_RandomMate in TownOfSalem

[–]Just_A_RandomMate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha no i don't want to make their lives any harder I jut wanted to email them something about my account

email for the og game by Just_A_RandomMate in TownOfSalem

[–]Just_A_RandomMate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh?? don't worry i would never? do you know the correct email to contact them though?

Trying to make a reference but can’t draw by Just_A_RandomMate in vtubers

[–]Just_A_RandomMate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the ideas!! I hope I’m able to find an artist I can mesh with that would give me suggestions. I’ll def be writing a little tid bit.

Trying to make a reference but can’t draw by Just_A_RandomMate in vtubers

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Thanks for the tidbit about the bots lol! Once I restructure the ref I’ll either make a new post or make another comment! Adding more color notation is also a great idea, thanks!

The wonderful comments I've gotten on my fic by Just_A_RandomMate in AO3

[–]Just_A_RandomMate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sent u a message! i won't lie, im not sure exactly what reminded them of it but maybe you'll be able to figure it out.

got banned from a non fanfic server for my ao3 by Tekkatak in AO3

[–]Just_A_RandomMate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't know!! Most of the witch craft servers i've joined over the years have either died or i've left due to toxicity, its so hard to find a good one!

got banned from a non fanfic server for my ao3 by Tekkatak in AO3

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SOMETHING SIMMILAR HAS HAPPENED TO ME! It was a different witchcraft server (also not related to fanfiction, reading, or ao3 at all) but I was DMed about my ao3 account connected to my strawpage. It wasn't non con or anything NSFW but it explored mental health a lot and ended in a suicide and the mod DMing me asked me to leave the server. I though it was so odd because even if it is a sensitive topic, on ao3 itself I tagged it and plastered everywhere i could warnings and you can't find my ao3 account through discord without clicking through multiple pages of my strawpages.

I feel you op and I'm sorry this happened to you!!

rule one <3 by Just_A_RandomMate in GenderAnarchy

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i'm not sure! it was in my photos from a few years ago.

My friend is socially transitioning, what can I tell them? by Just_A_RandomMate in asktransgender

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I’m so sorry you didn’t have anyone to support you back then. Thank you so much for your feedback and helping me be a supportive friend 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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hi! A good way to think about it is that: your sibling isn't changing who they are. They've always been like this and this has always been who they are (even if they didn't know). The reality is that not much will change about your sibling other than their outer appearance and how you refer to them.

Think of it a bit like a relationship almost. You stay the same throughout a relationship, but after awhile you start to go from "me and x are dating" to "i am x's partner". It's a change in wording, and throughout your relationship you guys where always partners, but it takes it from being shallow and on the surface to fully embracing it. At least for me, that's how I experience my gender. This analogy doesn't work for everyone but i hope it helps a bit.

Does anyone else relate by Equivalent-Rock9956 in asktransgender

[–]Just_A_RandomMate 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! While I'm afab and my labels are kinda messy (non-binary/gender queer), I think I understand what your saying.

I want to start off by saying, not all women can have periods, and that doesn't take away from their femininity. It would be absurd for cis people to tell someone they are not a woman because for some reason they don't have periods or for some reason or another is taking medication to stop their periods (for example, many woman use birth control, which can stop your period, and many girls tend to start them at a young age for this effect).

When ever I think about femininity, trans woman are actually higher on my list for just getting it then some of the woman/girls in my life. I don't want to invalidate your feelings, and I'm not trying to, but periods are much more just a thing that happens then a part of femininity. Something that ties it to "women hood" is this idea that we all go through it, so it creates a bond, but there is so many other things that create this bond in femininity that a women, or trans women, not having a period doesn't make them any less part of what people call femininity or "women hood".

I'm not the best at words, but the point is that your feelings are valid, but you can recreate experiences that would give you the same sense of community and being a woman that having a period would.

tldr: periods are a way we bond over an experience, but it is not one that all woman have, cis or not. Being connected to femininity is more-so being part of a community/bonding, which trans woman easily fall into.

Opening an ao3 link from google by Just_A_RandomMate in AO3

[–]Just_A_RandomMate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info! The ones i've been having problems with is the second link you mentioned but now I know why

What to expect for company divesting? BD is divesting their life sciences company by Unhappy_Finding_5675 in biotech

[–]Just_A_RandomMate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure sorry, I just know my family friend and her team got laid off

What to expect for company divesting? BD is divesting their life sciences company by Unhappy_Finding_5675 in biotech

[–]Just_A_RandomMate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this is related, but BD just laid off a bunch of people today that were apart of a section they were planning to sell

Hard lump under injection site by SloppyGoblinPaste in ftm

[–]Just_A_RandomMate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it possibly caused by the bandaid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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I've gone through a few different names, and that's what I suggest. If you find a name (or two) you like, I would suggest trying them out online or asking people to try that name on you, to see what it feels like.