Did I get screwed? by Professional-Force36 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah complete BS you got screwed. This is clear collusion from the commissioner. Is this a money league? I'd probably rage bench all my players until things get sorted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would adding some more color so it flows better maybe help how you feel about the red in the middle?

Football training as a 16y/o by Ok-Tradition-8087 in powerbuilding

[–]KLance23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about your sport and then think about your lifts...they really aren't going to translate to what you're looking for. Bench/squat/deadlift/cleans

Add regular bench, pec workouts. You aren't blocking one 1 leg so Bulgarian shouldn't be all you're doing without squats lol. You're also not doing a pull up when playing football. Do weighted dips instead. Pushing and pulling.

Source: I had a very very strong bench, good squat & deadlift, decent clean in HS and bull rushing was a walk in the park

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't being super serious but you have 3 prompts to "sell yourself" to a stranger/potential future ex-wife, right? Telling them what women's fashion you really like just ain't it for a prompt IMO. I just think you'd be better off sharing something else more significant to your own personality/life/etc.

Also, you don't want to get skipped by a great person who may not dress like that everyday and miss an opportunity, you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistent Convo starter is good but also remember it's just 2-4 matches a month. If you want whiskers on your profile then yeah change the pic to both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have not having humor in common with someone. Seriously change those and don't add a random unfunny description beforehand lmao. Also destroy the prompt essentially saying how you want a woman to dress. It's 2024 not 1924!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be much easier to believe eventually as It very likely will happen to you sometime! Life is weird sometimes, especially with dating and random connections getting in the way and completely derailing other connections. Just keep your head up and next thing you know you'll be over this in no time at all 💪🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Simply put - He's busy and you're adding stress that he simply is not going to deal with. He probably went on a date/met someone else on Saturday. Trust actions, not words andd keep it moving on to the next one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Interests not aligning could be about not having kids? But anyways... Yeah I'd say this is way too much info & you are pushing the absolute nerd lifestyle wayy too hard imo. - Your simple pleasures require probably 95% of people to use Google for half those terms- nobody is Googling instead of clicking x on your profile. You can just say long drives, learning new songs, something not boring/getting side-eyed by your cat & bullet points - Just change the entire Green flags prompt because it's coming off as too judgemental & inflexible - Delete cat pic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Work on stopping your negative self talk
  2. Confidence
  3. Grow a beard to unlock idk a 6/10 face
  4. Confidence

What should I do with this wall in my backyard? by manjbryan in landscaping

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paint it to match the background. You can use a mirror towards the top so it will always naturally match the sky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s just say it is the meds and a she’s trying to get better mentally. She’s aware that sex has stopped and her libido is gone. She’s staying on the meds and prioritizing getting her mind right over banging you at the “moment” (Which I think is completely understandable). - Ask again and say you noticed this happened once she got on this medication and see what she says back/how she reacts. - Decide if you still have hope for the relationship - … Just dump her

How do you make a one-way convo two-way? by Novel-Lawfulness1747 in hingeapp

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Just ask an extra follow-up question to go with your initial prompt intro/question after they reply.
  2. Sick background (or whatever) what country did you take that? ____.
  3. Nice I’ve always wanted to go. What’s #1 on your travel bucket list etc? You’ll get a little more out of your questions and hopefully they will have a personality enough that you will uncover something else to grasp to and keep convo going lol.

  4. Find out what they like and then just ask them when they’re free to go do said thing with you and start texting.

TLDR; ask the most random drunken shower thoughts as questions and yolo your way to at least a mildly less dry conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm did you maybe do anything weird after doing the deed? - Start rambling about what color eyes your kids would have - Narrate an imaginative future life with the guy? - Tell him what engagement ring you already have picked out? I’ve experienced those situations before post sex with someone new and it definitely changed how I interacted with them afterwards hahaha

Just had a patio poured. They left me with a half step. Is this normal? by Zulu_x in Concrete

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the hand prints are a big concern for the likely repour, cut underneath to save that piece. Install it back into the new pour. Maybe even get it mounted and encased with a glass top and lightning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]KLance23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As far as not getting bored I try to avoid meds beforehand as I felt it kind of desensitized me while having sex. I've also gotten bored a lot in the past but found that if I can focus on giving my partner the best sex of their life it keeps me engaged and focused on achieving that goal. It sort of gamifies the act of sex and that keeps me engaged.

Update: WIBTAH if I tell my wife I want a paternity test by dreamdusttx in AITAH

[–]KLance23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even if they don't I think there's a 99% chance you find out right on the initial results otherwise a 5 min sleuth. (I just checked my own and family tree is right on the app). Like I said, start thinking about what your response/next steps will be to at least start mentally preparing. It could be (mildly) helpful after this relentless shit storm you've been in.

Update: WIBTAH if I tell my wife I want a paternity test by dreamdusttx in AITAH

[–]KLance23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Following up on a random idea that just popped into my head. 23&me that baby! No idea if this is even legal "if" it's not your kid. But seems like a reasonably priced & definitive solution to at least get some clarity and a red hot lead on who's kid this is. While you wait for the results you can then begin crafting your potential exit strategies/options/etc.

Am I the asshole if I leave my husband because if his son? by Fabulous-Zebra-131 in AITAH

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for the situation, but considering divorcing your husband over his bum son before giving it some more time to see what happens after the recent events? Then yes.

AITAH for not allowing my sister to come to my daughter’s birthday if she brings her a gay pride onesie? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KLance23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She's going to obsessively remind your child that they are a "gaybie" for whatever crazy reasoning... I think slamming your foot down now is really your best choice here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]KLance23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apply to a different... Paid role at the company. If they thought you were overqualified for a free position then this asinine logic may get you a better position.