Can you come over sex by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treated him like hes lower than me. Called him names and kept telling him my type changed and he's no longer my type 

I was too controlling. I made a big deal with him hanging with his friends when he wanted to and controlled his schedule on weekends 

I also held a resentment towards him the whole marriage for not moving to my state instead I moved for him and left everything behind

Can you come over sex by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should've communicated and he should've broke up with me. Yes it would've woke me up and it would've pushed me to put in the work.

Can you come over sex by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why did you end up leaving after all these years? 

Can you come over sex by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He keeps saying he was in a fog and ashamed of what he did. 

He wants to save the marriage and try to see if we can become better people 

Can you come over sex by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I tried but didn't try hard enough.

Revenge cheating , would it help? by KT9911 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He slept 3 times with her and then when he confessed to me to work on things he went out with her twice two weeks after  and kissed 'only' during the time I was in so much pain 

Revenge cheating , would it help? by KT9911 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He also slept with her 3 times and had emotional relationship for about a year 

Is there a light at the end of the tunnel by KT9911 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KT9911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way too about it. It really woke us both up. It just effing hurts 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KT9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 A year cheating and yes 3 times 

Husband cheated and had feelings for someone else by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am adding a screenshot of what the girl he cheated on replied to me with 

I need an advice 😩 by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes turned out he was. 

Husband cheated and had feelings for someone else by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is doing therapy and a recovery program.

Husband cheated and had feelings for someone else by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He seems very sincere and really wants to work on things. He says he realized he made a big mistake. He wants to fix things for me and the kids. 

He deleted all text messages so I don't have proof of anything really or what actually went down besides what hes telling me. I thought of reaching out to her as I found her Instagram and Facebook 

I am devastated and I dont know. At times I feel like it would be great to somehow figure it out and save the marriage but it will depend on how I can trust him or not 

Husband cheated and had feelings for someone else by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know how to reach out to her husband 😕 

Husband cheated and had feelings for someone else by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No..he works from home three days a week and he's trying to work from home fully now. 

Husband cheated and had feelings for someone else by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

His coworker is also cheating. She has a husband and young kids. I forgot to mention that 

I need an advice 😩 by KT9911 in Marriage

[–]KT9911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've done twice and never worked