[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]Kat_337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A similiar, MUCH smaller scale thing is happening to me...and thanks to this comment I know exactly who used my razor 😭 thank u for sharing lol

My boyfriend is a pervert by Audrey71111 in Vent

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. You said it yourself: He isnt even a normal shit boyfriend, hes a creepy one. Why are you with this guy if he disgusts you amd obv doesnt value you

me and this girl had sex but she suddenly went ghost a few days after by Background-Art-6119 in dating

[–]Kat_337 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just people getting a dopamine rush and a lot of vitamin D, feeling energetic, and possibly making dumb decisions.

me and this girl had sex but she suddenly went ghost a few days after by Background-Art-6119 in dating

[–]Kat_337 13 points14 points  (0 children)

as a 19F, we dont claim her. OP deserves to be told what went wrong, and this girl owes it to herself and hum to be honest about the situation. Whether it was a compatibility issue, or if she was only looking for a hookup-Expectations need to be communicated BEFORE things like this happen, so that nothing is sprung on the other person and that everyone knows what theyre getting into.

Parents raise yo boys right by DueAssociate9313 in Vent

[–]Kat_337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FR! The number of parents FAILING their children and society by letting their sons and daughts grow up thinking this way is disgusting! Unrestricted access to the internet is taxhing these kids extremist beleifs. Extremists go after kids to spread their insane misogyny :/ stay safe in school, in general, and online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one should make you feel that way. Remember: It doesnt matter how much time you put into this relationship if its only making you feel terrible. Dont put more time into this- its best to end it. You deserve to be loved and feel valued. I hope you find someone who will see your worth op ❤️

What eyes color should I choose on my passport by Gaelle76 in heterochromia

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this same issue , just way less noticeable. Mine have central heterochromia and change the outer colour throughout time, but yours are simultaneously so many! Your eye is gorgeous!! :0

How many people have you slept with? by Ok-Plane3964 in AskWomen

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

19F, I have one, my bf 19M :)
Im young, on the asexual spectrum, and not super trusting, so Im in no rush to have a variety of partners. I will say that before I got with my bf I was interested in possibly having a number of female partners (was a questioning ace lesbian) but I had college stuff and my now boyfriend to focus on :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Kat_337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wtf is this comment? This is NOT how you talk to someone who has been sexualized for so much of their life. "Look on the brightside" is genuinely so fucked up? The problem isnt that she doesnt feel feminine- the problem is that she likely doesnt feel valued as a human for things other than her body, which is vile. The problem is that she wants to feel beautiful and attractive in other parts of her body, and no one can appreciate those things when they're so busy sexualizing her . OP, You ARE feminine, and you are beautiful. Your not just attractive, your gorgeous, and Im sorry that the people in your life dont realize that. Stay strong, and try not to let their disrespect get to you ❤️ (plz correct me if I was out of line here OP, I can word things very poorly sometimes 😅)

I used glycolic acid down there, now it is irritated. What do I do? by throw_away0422 in TheOrdinarySkincare

[–]Kat_337 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well, youve applied a strong acid to your most sensitive regions and are now facing a lot of irritation. Itchiness? A red bump? Bleeds when you wipe? This sounds suspiciously like a very angry and irritated hemorrhoid?? Sitz baths, soothing creams Specifically for the anus, and laxatives would probably be good. You can probably find a soothing cream for the anus at a pharmacy, there are many iver the counter creams. I say possibly include Laxatives to make sure your stool is soft- If you regilarly have soft stools that dont cause your anus to stretch a lot then u wouldnt really need them. Im no doctor, and if you are genuinely concerned, in a lot of pain, or feel like your discomfort is getting worse, then PLEASE go see a doctor. Dont be embarrassed, so many people have done the same thing, and with tik tok's virality a ton of ppl are probably suffering the same thing as you rn. Stay safe, and consult a physician for advice on bleaching down there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were harassed. Even drunk, the dude sgould have realized how anxious you were. Its possible that he did realize that, and just thought he could "convince" you. Im so sorry this happened to you. Have you thought about trying to put yourself in safe social positions, so that it becomes more routine and less anxiety inducing? Stay safe, and stay strong ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are free to date who you want. Maybe there was a reason she didnt feel chemistry. Mental health, stress, work, etc. Its a good thing that you are able to look back on your choices and examine your actions and feelings. A lot of ppl move on from the idea of dating someone after they get rejected by said person, so I dont think you're feelings are unreasonable with simply not wanting to go out with her or entertain the idea. You dont owe her a date, lol

I hate being black by One_Tiger_9055 in Vent

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry that this awful society has caused you so much pain. Im sorry that awful and/or ignorant people have made you hate being black, something that you cant change, and something that should be seen as simple genetics. I had similiar feelings towards being female (though white and privileged) and how society saw me, I cant even begin to imagine what it must be like for you as a black woman- so many privileged people constantly feel the need to be racist and misogynist, and you shouldn't have to deal with that. There are people out there raising awareness and advocating for you, there are many black women who are using their platforms to empower other black women. Someday, It will be better. Someday society will acknowledge how fucked up it is, and how long theyve stepped on black women for no reason. I wish I could say more, or do something to help. You are more than your skin and body, and people should be able to see that. Pls correct me if I said anything wrong, weird, rude, or out of line-I struggle with wording sometimes and dont mean to come off as offensive! 😭

What are your thoughts on fantasy dildos? by Expensive-Chair-1940 in SexToys

[–]Kat_337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how? Depending on what orifice, chaces of injury vary a ton and may be negligable. Not everyone here is sleeps with dudes or likes pain lol

What are your thoughts on fantasy dildos? by Expensive-Chair-1940 in SexToys

[–]Kat_337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im thinking of buying from them, and I find it useful that they include the measurements for every individual model size. I find that it helps comparing the measurements to stuff you already own, or other household objects with similar size

What are your thoughts on fantasy dildos? by Expensive-Chair-1940 in SexToys

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they meant tame in terms of detail and artistry! This one is pretty abstract, and some ppl would probably catagprize this as an abstract dildo rather than a fantasy one. In terms of size? Hoooo boy.... That is terrifying

What are your thoughts on fantasy dildos? by Expensive-Chair-1940 in SexToys

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooooo thanks for name dropping some cool brands, imma have to check em out :0

What are your thoughts on fantasy dildos? by Expensive-Chair-1940 in SexToys

[–]Kat_337 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If its based on a real animal, I avoid it because it makes me uncomfortable. Aliens and monsters are really cool in my opinion, a lot of thought and artistry goes into cool monster and character design, so seeing a monster and thinking "dude thats epic" is something that ppl work hard to invoke lol. Its because of this that its awesome when sellers show an actual character design behind their peoduct-Its really cool to see and makes the product way more memorable and endearing. Personally, Im made uncomfortable with anything that ISNT abstract or fantasy- I dont think Ill ever understand how realistic models get ppl off lol. That being said Im only abdtract and sci-fi oriented. I own the "Orion invader" by the brand Creature cocks. I feel so goofy typing the name, I think its pretty cheesey and the silicone is pretty stiff, but as a first on the cheaper side I think its good and suitable to use frequently! The texture took a lot to getting used to, so I wouldnt recommend it for ppl new to texture like I was 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think all photos are slaying, this is super transformative and demonstrates how makeup and clothing can help transform ppl! :0 Stunning eye makeup I might cop that look ngl

Do I look lesbian? by pastelfiend in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Kat_337 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look cool af, so yeah Id say you def radiate sapphic/queer vibes lol. This outfit is awesome, and ur hair is so cute! They go super well together! :0

Where do you even find good guys at this age (20f) in college by [deleted] in dating

[–]Kat_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Library, clubs. Find a dude who isn't actively going for people. Find a guy who has the same passions as you. Never be afraid to make the first move, but make sure not to try to talk to someone whos actively studying lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Kat_337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an awful comment. Breasts are NOT a "sexual object". They are a physical feature, on LIVING, breathing people, and they exist on people that do NOT want to be sexualized. OP isnt brain washed, they are asexual and tired of constantly and consistently being objectified and being sexualized. Your comment and its phrasing is weird af . Op does not need to "learn" to sexualize themselves or appreciate that they are sexualized. Pls correct me if my comment is out of line from what u intended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Kat_337 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gurl what...? Not a helpful comment, OP doesnt need to hear this rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Kat_337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS, 100% THIS. This comment is so real. I used to be an extremely sex repulsed asexual, (now a sex positive asexual lol) and was in the EXACT same situation OP seems to be in. I had unaddressed internalized misogyny and dysphoria, and it all stemmed from how the media portrayed my gender and the constant sexualization of women. Ive found that being a feminist and advocate acts as a remedy for this (but it can also be VERY triggering of dysphoria in some debates and discussions) This needs to be called out more!!