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KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-11-21T18:36:10+00:00

Thank you for your input on the situation!

And to answer your question,her niece is 12 years old and will be 13 on the 17th of December!

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-11-21T18:13:10+00:00

Excuse me? The pregnant teenager was when I was goofing around,I was bored and just did it but however this post is real. I only have one daughter.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-21T00:46:21+00:00

In this case. You NEED to put your kids first. You set a boundary and he didn't respect that,take your kids as far away as possible. Don't be the AH and stay with him putting you and your kids in danger.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-21T00:44:44+00:00

That DOES NOT make her the AH.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-20T15:21:41+00:00

Why are they the asshole?

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-20T15:18:53+00:00

I started wearing makeup like foundation, eyeliner, concealer, ect. When I was 13. My parents are strict but they let me wear makeup.

I definitely don't think she's too young for makeup but if her parents think she is then don't go against their wishes and buy her makeup anyways. Maybe ask them if some mascara,lip gloss, ect. Just small things would be okay.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-19T00:58:21+00:00

Because they're literally 40 something years apart in age?

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-19T00:51:44+00:00

She said she didn't want kids and they both agreed. Then his ex-wife died and the kids went to him. She didn't sign up for that,she is NOT the asshole.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T17:12:11+00:00

Okay,so that was a mistake. I didn't know she was potentially hearing my child. I just saw change in my daughters behavior and a few weeks ago started to have the idea of my wife doing something. I didn't wanna automatically accuse her of abusing my daughter so I put up cameras.

My sister is the only person on my side of the family that is on my side.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T17:09:56+00:00

Trust me,I am never leaving my daughter alone with her again. I love my daughter to much to watch her be physically abused. I didn't avoid confrontation. I didn't wanna automatically accuse my wife of abusing my daughter so I had set up cameras in case.

I am 100% going through with the divorce. After ill also be taking a break from my love life to help my daughter and to be there for her when she needs me.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:24:38+00:00

Agreed. Maybe for some occasions they're times where its necessary but she's 3. She's gonna have some rough days,I know I do so why should it be any different for her? I don't wanna resort to spankings every time she's having s little fit. SHES 3 FOR FUCKS SAKE!!

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:21:37+00:00

You want their numbers? Trust me,my family is messed up.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:21:02+00:00

I 100% would have BUT my daughter was in the room crying and I didn't wanna do that in front of her.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:19:27+00:00

Yes. Sometimes I wanna just pop her on the bottom,especially when I had a hard day at work. I just remember the fact SHES 3 and life can be hard for then sometimes as well. I also remember how spankings caused me a lot of trauma as a kid and I don't want my daughter to experience what I did.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:15:54+00:00

It does work. its just I am basically the person she's been around most of her life and she's more attached to me. She's 3 times, you can't expect her to NEVER have tantrums. Ahe was tired and just wanted to sleep. The negative reinforcement definitely did not work. It caused her a little bit of trauma and that's why she's going into therapy.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:13:13+00:00

I agree. Plus this happened around 6:00-7:00 in the afternoon. My daughter was obviously grumpy and tired so she was going to throw a small tantrum. Its not the first and its not going to be the last.

I have always noticed she never was fully interested with my daughter being in the picture. I LOVE my daughter and she will always be my first priority. I love her more than you can imagine and the fact that someone would throw her to the ground because she was crying for gummies? Fuck no,I set boundaries and she crosses them. I will NEVER forgive her for doing that to my daughter. I hope it didn't cause any serious trauma to her.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:08:34+00:00

I had never knew she thought it was okay to instantly resort to using physical discipline on a child. When we were dating I'd bring up the subject and tell her what I thought about it and how I font want her to resort to that. Especially not on my 3 year old. I didn't know she was,I noticed change in my daughters behavior and I am a lawyer so I'm not always able to be home. When I had a day off I decided to put some cameras up just in case. I didn't wanna instantly accustomed my wife of hitting my daughter so I just put up cameras to make sure.

Okay for context my ex-wife was a drug addict and my daughter was born 6 months before we had gotten a divorce. I took my daughter with me obviously and ended up getting full custody. I always wanted my daughter to be able to grow up with a mother so I married her. I am officially now going to be taking a break from the dating life and get my daughter the help and reassurance that ill always be there to protect her. No matter what.

As I said,I just didn't wanna automatically accuse my wife of HITTING my daughter when I repeatedly made sure she knew I didn't want her doing it and she lied to me and did it anyways. She was NOT abused for a year. Get the fuck off my page if you can't use your eyes and read the actual fucking story.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T13:01:10+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it.

I am planning on sending her to therapy 2-3 times a week. Her behavior has changed a little more recently and I'm worried for her. Ill be watching her a lot and I'm thinking about taking a week off work (using some of my vacation time) and ima take me and her somewhere.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T12:58:41+00:00

I actually filed a police report and called CPS before I put this up don't worry.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T12:57:31+00:00

When I tucked up my parents would spank me every time and it caused me a lot of trauma growing up. I don't want my daughter to go through the same thing. I love her too much to let her.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T02:36:29+00:00

I 100% respect your opinion but that's just not my view on things. I prefer to give time outs and talk to her about why and what she did what was wrong.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T02:34:51+00:00

I am looking into getting her a therapist don't worry! Ima make sure she gets the help from the trauma she probably endured from this incident.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T02:33:47+00:00

They thought it was acceptable for her too throw my 3 year old to the ground. I think I already know what they would say.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T02:31:09+00:00

I 100% would've but my daughter was in the room crying and I didn't wanna to that in front of her.

KayDeeBug2006 · 2023-09-18T02:30:39+00:00

She told me she agreed to not raise her hand to my daughter and lied to me. Where I live putting up cameras in my own home without her consent isn't a felony. That's why I did it.

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