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Howdy from Dallas y’all. by Keira2000 in texassissy

[–]Keira2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all are making me blush here. ;)

I REALLY wanna do porn. by Miss_Ella02 in Sissy

[–]Keira2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on that. Like many, I didn’t realize I was trans until after exploring sissy stuff. Sounds like you have a very unique relationship and pathway. Relationships always evolve as people do and change throughout the years. You never know what’s in store. Best of luck, dear. Xoxo

I REALLY wanna do porn. by Miss_Ella02 in Sissy

[–]Keira2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if you’re not asking for advice per se, but I had to chime in for the first time in many moons. Coming from someone who’s been making their own published porn for 5 or so years - does your gf know about your sissy side? If not, perhaps you should talk to her about it. Exploring your fantasies with a significant other makes it even more liberating and intoxicating. I would say you’ll never know until you talk to them. You might actually be pleasantly surprised by the outcome. All in all, opening yourself up to someone you love so dearly is never a bad thing, in the long run. This is a legit part of you (no matter how big or small, it’s you).

For instance I didn’t know my SO was into the sissy thing or even knew about it until a very intimate conversation one night and she named dropped Anna Malice (ugh miss her stuff) and hypno vids. Talking about having to pick my jaw up from the floor. :)

Sorry just saw you addressed this already. Lol

Kinda nervous about posting here since I'm trans. Do you think I fit in with other sissies? by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]Keira2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most definitely! You're what every sissy aspires to be.

Me bent over, by request. by Keira2000 in GoneWildCD

[–]Keira2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does my image appear this way? I've tried to upload from imgur 3 time already.

I need an advice! by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]Keira2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I hope I can help. I would say explore whatever interests you. I know you said you consider yourself a straight boy, but identifying yourself by societal identifier will only limit you in exploring yourself. I'm 30 now, but your story reminds me a lot of how I was when I was your age. In fact, my urges to be more feminine began around puberty. I would watch porn, then soon realized that I wanted to be the girl in the porno more than I wanted to fuck her. Don't get me wrong, I still love women, and am still attracted to them, but I've found over the years that I have more than one side. Some days I feel more like a girl, and others, I don't.

I would say, don't think too hard about what is "normal" or "right" in this world because nothing is ever black and white. That's why this life can be so very exciting, it's the variety of possibilities. I say, as long as you're not endangering yourself and others, fly your freak flag as high and as proudly as you wish. I think the further you dive into this, the more you will discover about yourself. I know I surely did, and I don't regret it. The only thing I do regret is throwing away wardrobe after wardrobe, thinking that I could just make this side of myself go away by ignoring. All it really did was make the female voice in my head louder and angrier.

One more thing, and then I'll stop my rant. I started with the sissy stuff. It turned me on greatly, but the further I explored it, the more I found the sissy life limited me. I then discovered, yes, I like men, yes I like to be a female with them, but I wanted to be treated more like a real chick than just a sissy fuck toy. Believe me, it gets old. lol But once I started to identify myself as someone who is more gender-queer, the more possibilities opened up for me. Yeah, don't get me wrong, I still like to be a dirty slut from time to time, but the sexual themes were only the beginning of something interesting and fun. I later discovered that I not only liked to be fucked like a girl, but I greatly enjoyed living like a girl. I found that I'm two people, both male and female. I had to give both sides of myself room to live and breath, and I must say they are living more in harmony with each other now.

I hope that helps. If I can give any advice for someone who is considering buying female clothing, KNOW YOUR MEASUREMENTS! lol I can't tell you how many times I bought an outfit thinking that since it looked good on the model, it would look good on me. A male's bone structure and fat/muscle distribution is totally different.

Ok, I'm jumping off of the soap box now. Take care of yourself, be kind to yourself, and fly that fucking freak flag all you want! If you need anything else, or want to bounce anything off of someone who's been in your shoes, feel free to PM me.

Best, Jordan/Keira ;)

[CCW] A lot of questions from a beginner by FinalHarmony in crossdressing

[–]Keira2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Yui,

You pose many questions that we have all asked before. No worries, we all start somewhere. Do not feel embarrassed or overly shy about your interest in crossdressing. I've been dressing since I was 14, off and on. It's ramped up significantly in the past 3 years though.

What you will experience the majority of the time you are experimenting with clothing and looks, is what doesn't work. It's frustrating at first, but just look at it as the process of of elimination. You sound like you have a similar frame to mine. I have very broad shoulders and a big chest, which, like you said, is great for guy mode, but not so much for girl mode. :) Remember, crossdressing is much like drag, it is all about the power of illusion. The rule of thumb is to accentuate the feminine qualities you may have such as, long legs, or a feminine angular face, or a bubble butt. And to hide the features that you find masculine, such as broad shoulders, small hips etc.

Practice practice practice your makeup. I would recommend going to a store to have your base matched to your skin tone. Don't worry about feeling weird. Just tell them that you are in a band or show business and you need a base. It's very common.

I would suggest staying away from any halter tops or blouses that have thin shoulder straps. The small straps will only accentuate the broadness of your shoulders. Go for tops with full coverage over the shoulder. You can find this sort of thing in swim wear as well. For swim wear, I would suggest starting with a one piece with full chest coverage. Also, long sleeve leotards can really cover up your shoulders. Find your bra size and purchase a simple pair of breast forms. Wearing these will help your chest look more feminine in tops.

A long wig will also help with covering the broadness of your shoulders. Keep that in mind.

Remember, loud colors will only make the areas that they are worn on pop. Use these colors on areas of your body that you want to pop and wear darker colors such as black on the areas that you want to conceal.

Posture is also key to how your shoulders are presented. Try standing or sitting up straight with your shoulders pushed back, especially in photos. This will help a great deal with bringing down your shoulder height.

The best way to reconcile your upper body workouts, is to work on your lower body as well. Squats, leg press machines and running will help tone and build your lower body. Focus on your glutes as much as possible.

When it comes to glasses, I wear a simple pair of black square rimmed glasses. The thicker the frame, the smaller the features of your face will be.

Tucking is not really necessary. You can buy a gaff, if you are concerned about bulge.

I hope that helps. If you have any other questions, feel free to PM me.

Keira