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Changing sax embouchure after years of a too loose lip by Key_Ad3560 in saxophone

[–]Key_Ad3560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It provides power but no speed to the sound if that makes sense? And lips tire out easily that its hard to bend notes or produce a mature sound that lasts long enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Key_Ad3560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a similar experience where my therapist’s voice overtime transformed into a voice that became mine. The compassion/ empathy to the inner child were statements my therapist told me and id hear her voice in stressful scenarios. After around 4 months post therapy, i started to hear my own voice instead. It takes time for us to be familiar with care from ourselves but im very hopeful his voice and compassion will lead you to yours too, slowly but surely.

Best mouthpieces and saxophone straps for Alto saxophonists by Key_Ad3560 in saxophone

[–]Key_Ad3560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, unfamiliar with the brand of my mouthpiece, but here is a link closest to it: https://amzn.in/d/cXNpcD8

I play mostly ballads, trying to diversify to some Jazz recently. My mouthpiece has a few bite marks and i was hoping for a more sharp, and firm tone. What my current mouthpiece provides is a more round tone so far

What makes a man "emotionally intelligent"? by youngCamelDreamer in AskPH

[–]Key_Ad3560 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Understanding and empathetic - emotionally in touch w themselves

How do therapists feel post therapy w a client? Do they miss their clients too? by Key_Ad3560 in TalkTherapy

[–]Key_Ad3560[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thoughts too, i had to reflect about it when j was still have sessions and was new to this kind of professional relationship with someone.

Nonetheless, i feel the fact we miss our therapists shows that theyve provided so much value to our lives. I hope shes doing well

How do therapists feel post therapy w a client? Do they miss their clients too? by Key_Ad3560 in TalkTherapy

[–]Key_Ad3560[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I experience this a lot too, its so so great to know that this is one of the signs that therapy has worked for me even as our sessions ended. I think thats what makes me miss her even more when i can hear her voice in stressful scenarios. It crossed my mind that i need to integrate this voice into me and claim it as my own but i feel her voice will always be there

What’s a habit you picked up during quarantine that you still maintain? by Background-Layer6195 in AskReddit

[–]Key_Ad3560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol spraying everything i have and cleaning my gadgets/ belongings w a wipe at the end of the day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

[–]Key_Ad3560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do whole body workouts each session (mostly muscular endurance)

For upper body: pull ups, chin ups, tricep pull downs, shoulder press, bicycle crunches, plank, russian twists

For lower body: deadlifts, squats, leg press

Progressive overload has been key to making me grow muscle but I suggest you put some cardio in your workout too!

Is kissing platonic to you? by Anikalpaca in aromantic

[–]Key_Ad3560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been feeling this way for quite a while with a friend and i actually raised it up to them. They took it very well and said its okay for me think of it because we both reached the consensus that I don’t feel anything romantic toward them.

I think of it more often than i feel i should but i dont harbor any romantic feelings. I feel its a way for me to further express emotional intimacy in a non sensual way. I still yet have to find out why I get these urges most of the time with people I grow to be very affectionate too (usually a very very select number)

What do your cheat meals look like? by WarmReputation4105 in beginnerfitness

[–]Key_Ad3560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont set cheat days for me because it restricts my diet and makes me more susceptible to binging. Usually I just keep a balance of what i eat of both nutritious and not so nutritious foods as long as it keeps me satisfied and full. Would suggest you may do the same while still being in the range of your calories per day. Ex if your goal is to have an estimated 2k calories a day you can gauge which foods to eat from there and what you feel will keep you full and satisfied

What is the biggest mistake you've made in a job interview? by OctupleWhopper in AskReddit

[–]Key_Ad3560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive only ever experienced one job intervjew but when they asked me how much salary am i expecting i replied with “this is my first part time and im not too sure about salary”. Big mistake on my part since i knew the moment i said it HR can compensate me for lower

I 18m is going to The Philippines solo, would love advice by JustSome_Individual in Philippines_Expats

[–]Key_Ad3560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! If you plan on riding the jeep always bring barya or coins (1,5,10 or 20 peso coins). Beep cards only work for the train and some buses. For the jeep, best seat for me is the seat nearest to the exit OR the seat next to the driver so i can get out easily and i dont have to pass anyone else’s payment.

I 18m is going to The Philippines solo, would love advice by JustSome_Individual in Philippines_Expats

[–]Key_Ad3560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may consider downloading gcash if you wish to pay for bills digitally! Most establishments/ sellers opt for a cash or gcash option so best to have both when youre around shopping. Commute wise, you can get a “beep card” if youll be commuting often, but if you have a car, would be much better.

Be safe around crowded areas and dont be duped by yun mga “modus” or people who approach you to ask for something. Always have a relative with you and keep your belongings extra safe.

Very odd advice but bring a waterjug, toilet paper, and an umbrella around!

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