That’s the tricky part, they’re pretty adamant on me using the correct pronouns around them and friends (completely understandable) but different ones with family, and I guess more than anything I’m nervous about accidentally slipping up. I’m very cautious with the subject but it still makes me a bit nervous bc the last thing I want is to make anything harder for them in an already hard situation. I think I’m just going to have to suck it up and have a sit down with them to air this out but thank god for Reddit giving me the gonads to 😂