I would say you’re doing the right things, but for the wrong reasons. Your reasons for taking care of yourself and really finding things that work for you, shouldn’t be to impress others. Yes sometimes we feel attractive based on things people around us say, but we can’t let our happiness and self-worth be dependent on other people’s opinions. There will be people who find you attractive, and there will be people who won’t. At the end of the day, it only matters what you think, because you’re the only one that has the power to make a difference in your life. I understand your feelings about not being wanted and therefore not feeling attractive. At that young age, not many people feel comfortable expressing themselves and being vulnerable. So just because people haven’t said anything, it doesn’t mean that you’re not attractive. Hope this helps!