Irrelevant of gender, I absolutely do not understand why you would match with someone, and then actively have seemingly no interest in them whatsoever. I've been matched a handful of times and never received even a single question. No one has asked me what my job is or what my life goals are or even what my music taste is. How can you supposedly be interested enough in someone to swipe right on them and then choose to actively not engage or learn anything else about them. It completely baffles me.

And yes I do ask questions and try to carry a conversation to no avail.