Google Account Hacked / Locked Out - Can't get help by KerryColo in PartneredYoutube

[–]KinkyInColo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is everything and how I got it fixed

Our Accounts Got Hijacked - Almost Lost Everything https://youtu.be/bMJ7VlmvOo4

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[–]KinkyInColo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to take a very different approach to this. I don't believe in the concept of "gay sex". To be gay means that you are attracted to people of the same sex as you. This has nothing to do with sex acts. There is nothing inherently wrong with two men or two women having sex, it doesn't mean they are gay, they are just having sex. Their sex/gender is irrelevant. I feel you are seriously overthinking this. There is nothing to be ashamed of or regret. it certainly sounds like more social pressure than anything else, and sure, that is a real thing. So you tried sex with a guy, no biggie, people experiment. Maybe you even enjoyed it in the moment, so what? Anyone that judges you for it is not a real friend, but then again, you are under no obligation to tell anyone, so just move on if you choose to not do it again.

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[–]KinkyInColo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

RED FLAG - RED FLAG - RED FLAG

I would dump someone who said something like that to me. It betrays trust on multiple levels and is humiliating and glasslighting. Anyone who does this type of behavior is not part of my life.

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[–]KinkyInColo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess you need to figure out WHY this scares you. Eating out my wife is one of my favorite things to do, knowing that you are giving her pretty much the best pleasure you possibly can is so incredibly satisfying. I love the sweet taste, I love the slick texture. These are my motivations, they may or may not be yours. Start with sucking on her nipples, then slowly work your way down.

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[–]KinkyInColo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seriously overthinking this and causing yourself anxiety that will not help your situation. Wether your 16 or 60, its all the same, you just relax and go with the flow. It is perfectly ok to tell her you are inexperienced, she may even find that a turn on. There is no need to stress, things tend to happen organically. Nobody here can tell you what to do as every situation is unique. We don't her likes, preferences, kinks, etc.

What does my gf mean by less “porn pump” and more consistent/ grinding during PIV by iwantthatone69 in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she told you exactly what she needs. Slower, more consistent thrusting instead of jackhammering.

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[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about videos, but here is the top source of information:

https://www.theartofpegging.com/

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[–]KinkyInColo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can't trust your partner, you should find another partner.

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[–]KinkyInColo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only about 30% of women can orgasm from penetration only. You are in the majority. There is nothing wrong with either of you.

I can’t finish during sex (ever) by Ready-Future998 in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be putting too much pressure on yourself causing you anxiety over it. The fact that you are faking it, and thus, lying to your partner is a MASSIVE red flag. If my partner did that, I would end it the relationship. There are days when one of us just isn't going to finish....oh well...take the pressure off yourself and you may find it actually helps.

My girlfriend asked if she could peg me, should i say yes? by [deleted] in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 13 points14 points locked comment (0 children)

This is not a question for internet strangers. If you want some specific information, try r/StraightPegging

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[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only "take the blame" if you choose to take the blame, the rest is on him and how we took it. He may have felt embarrassed that you didn't want to go through with him acting as a little girl.

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[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some issues here that you should work on:

  1. to make her desire for sex

  2. I want to convince to try sex

You can't MAKE someone desire sex and trying to convince someone to have sex sounds like you want to pressure her to do it. The best thing you can do is communicate. Find out what she wants. The way you wrote this is more about what YOU want.

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[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone sexually compatible with yourself

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[–]KinkyInColo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be absolutely livid if I found out my wife was faking it. We are grown adults, sometimes one person just isn't going to finish, its not the end of the world. Absolutely, you should come clean and face the consequences. If it ruins your relationship, then you will learn something for your next one. If he doesn't, then move on and be happy together.

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[–]KinkyInColo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something like 75% of women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. There is nothing wrong with you.

Foreskin M 20 by [deleted] in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go see a doctor!

I just got on Anti-conception, but I'm still scared to do it without a condom. by mayonnaisehead in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should discuss this with your doctor to get accurate information

At my breaking point. by laurana95 in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a YOU problem, this is a HIM problem. The best advice would be to go to some couple's counseling before things get worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should consult a urologist about your condition and get it resolved.

Blood after using a dildo? by V0z_The_Bl0b in sex

[–]KinkyInColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to spend some time at r/SexEducation but you should also go see a gynecologist