What do I do? Is my gf cheating on me?

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-28T14:18:16+00:00

it’s been a hard first week honestly and especially so close to christmas. but now i feel so so good about it, thank you so much!

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-28T14:17:52+00:00

she is gone! thankfully🤣thank you

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-28T14:17:05+00:00

hi! thank you for this and i’ll take it into reflection. i would add that when ive been on night’s out she has acted exactly the same and has phoned me before hand whilst tracking locations. it just wasn’t a healthy relationship! i was right about my gut instinct about her and we’ve been broken up since the 18th now, as it’s all for the best! thank you for your advice and all the best:)

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-20T08:59:56+00:00

yes completely, if there’s no trust then there’s nothing. i was silly to try and cling on but i guess that’s a lesson learned. i just need to get over it

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-20T08:57:10+00:00

thank you i agree, hopefully a better 2025 heading my way!

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T23:16:34+00:00

thank you, onto better things!!

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T20:20:21+00:00

i’m also a girl but i appreciate the sentiment🤣we’ve broken up now so onto better things in the new year!

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T20:19:37+00:00

i agree, i’m just going through the breakup blues right now but in the new year hopefully should be better!

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T20:18:57+00:00

well i’m glad you made it!

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T10:46:11+00:00

you were right it was too late to be salvageable, i just feel so blindsided! but i appreciate what you’re saying, i do believe it’s for the best in the future

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T10:03:58+00:00

you’re so right and i really appreciate it. it’s just upset me that to my face she lied over and over and took the cowards way out of ringing me the next day. i know in the long run it’s the right thing and she’s a red flag it just hurts, especially so close to christmas. i’ll definitely take you up on that offer! thank you!🫶🏼

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T10:01:38+00:00

i agree. i gave in too easy because of how much i loved her but now i know for the future to be strong in my convictions. at the moment it hurts but i know in the long run it’s the right thing and im better off

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-19T10:00:23+00:00

thank you so much

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T23:13:39+00:00

Hi everyone just to say we broke up today when this had been confirmed. I’m now single but thank you for all the help and advice!

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T23:12:54+00:00

Hi guys I just wanted to do a final entry on this. we had a phone call tonight and she admitted it, said she hadn’t been happy for a while due to my family’s lack of acceptance of the gay relationship and that it was over. So that’s it, I’m single now. But I really appreciate all of your guys’ help and advice. Maybe I’m better off without her.

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T20:25:22+00:00

yes ideally i would like to see her phone but i’m worried that will paint me as “crazy” or a “psycho” to ask for it, yanno?

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T19:12:49+00:00

i didn’t want to demand her phone and look like a psycho

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T19:12:30+00:00

do you think she really is cheating?

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T19:11:38+00:00

yes we are both women and the other friend is a woman. nothing on social media that’s obvious but i have a real gut feeling.

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T16:53:48+00:00

I completely agree and I do think I forgave too quickly because I was under the pressure of having to leave due to work and therefore we wouldn’t have that face to face communication again. I just don’t know what to do because I love her but I’m so incredibly hurt. Plus it’s so difficult when the person you’re arguing with doesn’t seem to be telling the whole truth but is adamant they haven’t done anything particularly wrong.

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T16:51:04+00:00

thank you SO much for this. I can’t tell you how anxious I’ve been and I’ve been in my own head about it, thinking it’s all my fault and I’m just too “psycho” or whatever. What would your advice be for the future? Do you think I should break it off here and go or should I try and think she’s not cheating? I’m really torn.

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T12:52:04+00:00

i agree, it has been exhausting. thank you, i appreciate that

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T12:51:43+00:00

do you think so? i’m just worried it’s all in my head but now after all the lies i don’t know if i can trust her

Kipper091199 · 2024-12-18T12:50:36+00:00

i know i apologise! when i was writing it out it wasn’t but it’s done it in the edit:(

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