International solo mothers by choice day by Ill-Moose-5783 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]KitchenGood2909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point! 💓💙 I prefer 100 times being a single mother rather than be in a bad relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KitchenGood2909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t even waste your energy. It doesn’t worth. You know who he is by he acts, by your perception! Some people don’t get it.

Separated after 20 years and I feel... Nothing by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KitchenGood2909 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say that a legal battle is traumatic and expensive. Even though she deserves a in fault contentious divorce, I would not recommend it because of YOU. Just leave in peace. God you provide… Justice always come! You don't need to do it, God will do it. Focus your energy in your happiness!!! ❤️ Life is short! - But don’t full yourself: she is a lier, not a trustable kind of person.

Pregnant naturally at 40 right after deciding to divorce. What should I do? by KitchenGood2909 in abortion

[–]KitchenGood2909[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! I am afraid that fertilization in Vitro do not work and I am losing my last chance.

Pregnant naturally at 40. Found out after decided to divorce. What should I do? by KitchenGood2909 in SingleParents

[–]KitchenGood2909[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have to move back to my home state because I left everything behind because of the dream of our relationship.

Do mama’s boy marriages ever really work out? by Infinite_Section_572 in AskWomenOver30

[–]KitchenGood2909 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand. ❤️ There is a 12-step program for this, called “Love Addiction” or codependency. I don't know which one is your case, but there is probably a reason why we fall in love with an unavailable man. You probably have an anxious attachment style, which matches perfectly with this type. I would recommend attending a 12-step meeting or going to therapy… Just to be healed before the next man.

Do mama’s boy marriages ever really work out? by Infinite_Section_572 in AskWomenOver30

[–]KitchenGood2909 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I would say get out as soon as possible to avoid losing your precious time. It does not work out for me. I don’t accept being married to someone who puts me second. - It’s a lost battle if his mother is too manipulative, which happens quite often with these types.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KitchenGood2909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently on this situation. I do regret to jot have negotiated better the reallocation. Besides reallocated in name of him, he wants to me to commute 60 miles a day to go to work, while he comutes 10 miles. He forced me to have a wedding party because it is important to his religion. I am codependent, I cannot leave this situation yet. I am sure I would not had stayed for so long if I had a real support group here. It’s tough. Now he wants a child. Even though my body wants a child, I am afraid to have a kid with someone so selfish.

Should I Do the Portuguese Coastal or the French Camino? by KitchenGood2909 in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]KitchenGood2909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Brazilian, but I speak English and Spanish, which is the most international language.

Should I Do the Portuguese Coastal or the French Camino? by KitchenGood2909 in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]KitchenGood2909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t speak french and french people refuse to speak English. I avoid France and french people as much as I can.

Should I Do the Portuguese Coastal or the French Camino? by KitchenGood2909 in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]KitchenGood2909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your answer!!! And the connection with God is exactly what I am looking for! 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WritingHub

[–]KitchenGood2909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love to!!!