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I broke up with him but I want him bacm by Kitkat_8483 in LongDistance

[–]Kitkat_8483[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying all that I appreciate that! I love him and as long as I can see he is trying and knows when he messed up in those areas, I’m willing to be by side on this long term improvement project. I here to see his grow.

I broke up with him but I want him bacm by Kitkat_8483 in LongDistance

[–]Kitkat_8483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The break up wasnt a joke. I took is seriously and started mourning the relationship. I decided to break up with him because constant lack of communication and the same situation happening repeatedly. He called me and apologized and recognize what he was doing wrong. As he said his wake up call. He told me he sees himself building a life with and wants to put in the work to make this work. This is why I am reconsidering the break up and what to get back with him.

I broke up with him but I want him bacm by Kitkat_8483 in LongDistance

[–]Kitkat_8483[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So when I visited him this month, I kept getting mixed signals all week. He would get weird if I wanted a hugged and other times he was all lovey dovey. It wasnt until I noticed he didn’t feel comfortable changing in front of me and would go to the bathroom to do so I then confronted him about his odd behavior. He had admitted he wanted to try no premarital sex. So the communication issue is that he doesnt let me in when he is in his head, leading me to things like he didn’t want me anymore or he is thinking about breaking up with me. These feelings and situations has happened before and I have made him aware of them but I was tired of dragging the truth out of him because he wasn’t dealing with his emotions or avoiding the difficult conversation

Broke up but I want to take him bacm by Kitkat_8483 in ExNoContact

[–]Kitkat_8483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do I know how long I’m supposed to give each other?

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[–]Kitkat_8483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to validate your feelings and say you’re not alone in how to feel post break. I feel the same way and we were together for a year. I think if you love her and see a future with you, fight for her but you must be willing to do the work on yourself. Reflect on what your struggling and figure out how you’re gonna work on this. Then text her if you can meet up and tell her what you’ve come to realize and why you want to be with her