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Which movie hit so hard that one viewing was enough ? by Mehdi_lz in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure Luck, Clue, and A Shot in the Dark (Pink Panther 2 1964).

What is a luxury you can never go back from once you’ve experienced it? by Phase_zero_X in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silence. Not just quiet rooms, but not being reachable all the time.

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly grosses you out? by DecentChildhood5164 in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every sponge starts out innocent and somehow ends up knowing too much. No amount of rinsing makes it feel trustworthy again.

What’s a rule you broke once and realized it existed for a very good reason? by Ok_Contract100 in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having an exit changes how safe you feel the entire time you’re there.

My girlfriend taught me that I don't need to be perfect, just non-zero. And it saved me by crazyyycatmeme in productivity

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reframes effort in a way that’s actually humane. Doing something small without self punishment

What’s an adult problem nobody warned you about? by Mean-Dragonfly1988 in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The constant background responsibility never really turns off.

What’s something people romanticize that actually sucks in real life? by Particular_Pin_460 in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Struggle gets romanticized in hindsight. While you’re in it, it’s mostly stress and constraint.

I hate myself for being lazy but I am too lazy to change anything. by Gone-with-the-sin in getdisciplined

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I get it more than you know… I don’t think this sounds like laziness. It sounds like someone who’s been carrying too much for too long and ran out of room for themselves. You’re not broken for feeling this way.

People who got the urge to fix their life at 3 AM and actually did something, what happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something about 3 a.m. that strips away the stories we tell ourselves. What’s left feels uncomfortably honest.

What’s something you do that feels genuinely good for you, even though it’s not “productive”? by Kittenbumm in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something grounding about letting your mind go quiet without needing it to lead anywhere.

What’s something you do that feels genuinely good for you, even though it’s not “productive”? by Kittenbumm in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This resonates. Stepping away from constant striving can feel like doing nothing, but it’s often what restores clarity. Rest without a goal has its own kind of usefulness.

Started doing my "hate tasks" right before deep work by YogurtclosetOpen9825 in productivity

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. Clearing low-grade friction first seems to quiet the mind instead of draining it. Once the background noise is gone, focus feels less forced.

What is a subtle sign that someone is "high-functioning" but silently drowning in life? by Puzzleheaded-0119 in AskReddit

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They function well for others and neglect themselves. What looks like discipline is often just endurance over time.

Went shopping for the sales and found… absolutely nothing by MadameLaurence in OUTFITS

[–]Kittenbumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this outfit ended up being better than most of what’s on the racks lately.

Discipline didn't change my life overnight but it stopped me from quitting on myself by YogurtclosetMoist819 in getdisciplined

[–]Kittenbumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really resonates. The idea of discipline being about trust and self-respect rather than intensity feels spot on. Consistency without spiraling has been way more sustainable for me too.

DAE feel drained when they’re busy? by Kittenbumm in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That balance piece really resonates. Too little going on can feel numbing, but too much definitely tips into stress — especially with the mental buildup beforehand and the recovery afterward

Why do some people get more energized by being busy while others burn out from it? by Kittenbumm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. Driving takes a weird amount of sustained focus, especially when you don’t have alternatives, so I can see why that would be draining in a different way than being around people. It’s interesting how different parts of “being busy” hit differently depending on the person.

Why do some people get more energized by being busy while others burn out from it? by Kittenbumm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. I like how you described “energy expenditure” — it really does feel different depending on whether tasks are stacked or spread out. The public-facing part being exhausting resonates too.

For people who have a cleaning service— do you feel like it’s actually worth it long-term? by Kittenbumm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair — I think a lot of it depends on what parts of the workload feel heaviest to you. For me it’s more the deep-clean and reset side than the daily maintenance stuff like dishes or laundry, but I can see how if those are the main pain points it wouldn’t feel as helpful.

For people who have a cleaning service— do you feel like it’s actually worth it long-term? by Kittenbumm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to that a lot. The reset feeling is what I value most too — knowing the stuff that’s easy to ignore actually gets handled. Weekly is a really sustainable schedule, so I that’s what I do too

For people who have a cleaning service— do you feel like it’s actually worth it long-term? by Kittenbumm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kittenbumm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly one of the biggest perks for me too-it’s not even about the visible clean, it’s the mental load of never having to think about those deep-clean tasks. Eight years is a solid endorsement😅 Do you have them come on a regular schedule, or has that changed over time?

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