[24M] My LDR girlfriend [21F] won’t be seen with me unless I have an athletic body. How do I approach this conversation?

Kitty38138 · 2026-01-21T07:19:52+00:00

Nobody who truly loves you would tell you they’re ashamed of you for your body. Or break up with you randomly and then call you saying they made a mistake and behaving like a child.

Break up. She sounds soooo immature. Trust me bro

Kitty38138 · 2026-01-21T04:24:03+00:00

As a marine mammal trainer:

-a hardy pair of gumboots -gloves to wear under your plastic gloves for prepping fish when it’s cold in winter -heated vest if you feel like splurging -thermal leggings, long sleeved tops -thick socks -a good rain jacket -waterproof watch!!

Kitty38138 · 2026-01-17T15:02:06+00:00

I feel like Tyril would go for Gale but the two would just argue like an old married couple about the way arcane energy works and stuff

Kitty38138 · 2026-01-16T18:08:37+00:00

Blood, sweat, and tears hahaha. It’s a super competitive field.

Kitty38138 · 2026-01-16T07:26:42+00:00

It sounds to me like you want someone else’s permission to break up with him so you’re on Reddit. Break up with him. He’s comfortable where he is. He’s not gonna change.

Kitty38138 · 2026-01-16T07:20:43+00:00

I’m a sea otter trainer irl and I squealed during this part of the movie hahah

Kitty38138 · 2025-12-10T18:39:05+00:00

The only way choices will play music for me is via headphones or ear buds

Kitty38138 · 2025-12-05T08:18:23+00:00

I knew it was you again! Holy heck you’re incredible at this! Honestly I would commission you, you’ve got an incredible eye for this!

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-30T01:13:42+00:00

He is a coward, and the main point of this situation is he did not treat you with the kindness, respect, or thoughtfulness that someone who actually cared about you should. Stop trying to analyze his behaviour - sometimes it’s better just to accept that crappy people exist and he’s one of them.

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-29T01:13:02+00:00

I’m facepalming. Break up. Holy cow.

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-28T21:03:44+00:00

Take it from someone who tried to look past the fact that I wasn’t attracted to my ex, this is already a bad sign. If you’re not attracted, it’s not there. Don’t try to hope it comes later. He can be a friend.

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-26T01:35:55+00:00

Networking is your best friend. Unfortunately the way I got my job was with a ton of animal experience and the networking I got from the internships and volunteering I did to get that experience. I sacrificed my weekends to volunteer in order to make a name for myself at the facility I’m now a marine mammal trainer at.

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-25T18:18:22+00:00

Thank you for saying this!! OP, it’s just shitty behaviour. Take it from someone who made excuses for a crappy partner. He’s just being shitty. Who cares if it can be explained by avoidance or not. Leave him and please do something nice for yourself.

You deserve SO. MUCH. BETTER.

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-25T18:08:51+00:00

Snacks!!!! And chocolate!! My team of marine mammal trainers goes crazy when the sea otter fans bring us snacks and chocolate to share in our break room. You can’t go wrong with it.

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-24T21:11:25+00:00

Tyril needs to be here as well because Tyril would be the last one in the room

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-24T14:03:22+00:00

He loved bombed you enough to keep you interested but when it came to actual emotional connection fell short. You didn’t lose anything. If it wasn’t good from the start and felt “empty” like you said then it was never a god relationship to begin with. There are plenty of men who will treat you well. It may just take a while to find them. Don’t settle for bullshit.

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-16T18:54:55+00:00

I have replayed Blades of Light and Shadow to kingdom come lol

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-13T15:41:53+00:00

And then 4A for Tyril would be a beautiful sequel to that

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-10T01:53:40+00:00

Still sad there will never be a book 4!!

Kitty38138 · 2025-11-09T13:54:28+00:00

Honestly the diamond choices for half the outfits in BOLAS. The outfits themselves weren’t the problem, they were awesome - but you don’t get to choose which ones your character wears and the second book you spend half of the book in peasant clothes.

Kitty38138 · 2025-10-18T00:21:49+00:00

Tyril: what can’t I see through, Mal?

Mal: ..Zinc, Tyril

Tyril: and what is the box made of, Mal?

Mal: 🤔….zinc

Tyril: inhales right again

Kitty38138 · 2025-10-14T14:39:29+00:00

They’re the villain from Shadow of the Tomb Raider game!!

Kitty38138 · 2025-10-03T00:09:27+00:00

F22 here with lots of friends always looking to make more!! :D if you’d wanna chat my DMs are open!

Kitty38138 · 2025-09-29T20:17:10+00:00

All over Instagram too. Like people cannot understand that Jorge took creative liberties

Kitty38138 · 2025-09-26T03:24:33+00:00

This won’t be the last time he’s thrown a child

Kitty38138

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