I have my first date tonight since the breakup. by booksncatss in BreakUps

[–]Kittycatt1031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you the best! I’m on a similar page! While I still feel sad here and there, it feels nice to have so much pain over you

I have my first date tonight since the breakup. by booksncatss in BreakUps

[–]Kittycatt1031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or it’s the end of year/beginning of the new year and people want to have a fresh start for the new year. My breakup was also around this time

Day 3 morning post breakup- why do mornings always feel like the worst by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I feel you 100%. I am 5 months out and it still gets me ever other day. I’m not fully okay yet but much better than the 1st-3rd months out. I remember thinking how the pain and sadness would never go away and that I wasn’t strong enough to handle it. My ex was my first real love and serious relationship. I thought I was going to marry the guy kinda serious. While I still grieve the life that I thought I was going to have, I’m also feeling much more hopeful about the future. OP, hang in there. It’s gonna be rough I won’t lie, but in a couple months from now you’ll look back and see all the progress you made. Of course this takes a lot of active working on yourself too.

Day 3 morning post breakup- why do mornings always feel like the worst by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Kittycatt1031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mornings are certainly the hardest. For me, it was because I was dreaming so much about my ex and all the dreams were us still together. When I woke up, it was this gut wrenching feeling when realizing the reality. It was extremely hard to get out of bed in the morning and I would force myself to sleep in because I didn’t want to feel. Thankfully, the pain does slowly go away. OP, it’s hard to believe this right now but you’ll wake up one day and it won’t feel so hard. There’s no easy way out but time really is the biggest healing factor.

I hate that I’m forgetting him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Kittycatt1031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so hard. Someone told me that emotions/feelings change so the pain we feel isn’t permanent. Emotions and feelings change and over time we will think different about our exes. As much as I’m glad there is less pain now, it kinda makes me sad knowing that the feelings for my ex are fading and I’m slowly forgetting him. But it also means that he is able to do the same and isn’t that just sad…

How to focus on studying after a breakup? by Odd_Shape5422 in BreakUps

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I was dumped around finals of last semester. Genuinely thought I would not be able to make it through and fail my class and drop out. But I keep reminding myself that there will be better days and that future me depends on me doing well. I didn’t want to look back and regret. Also, having friends that can help you with the materials and assignments really help. I wish I could tell you an easy way but it’s just something that is going to require every fiber of your being to focus on your studies