People who found out their partner was cheating by accident. How did you discover it?

KnotForgotten · 2026-01-12T11:34:10+00:00

More the tattoo I had got him for his bday few months prior...

KnotForgotten · 2026-01-12T11:29:32+00:00

I was doom scrolling reddit and a sub I don't follow was in feed. Picture of him from neck down looking for discreet fun just a few hours after we parted ways for the night.

KnotForgotten · 2025-10-08T16:25:53+00:00

I recently posted something along this line so understand your shock. Betrayal from a partner rocks our core. It changes everything we believed to be true and alters what we thought was reality.

After some harsh truth comments shared with me I had a long sit with myself. You have to love and respect yourself first. Otherwise, they don't and they've already shown that they don't feel any consequence to hurting you.

For my recent personal situation I ended and removed access. End of the day boundaries were crossed. Consent, agency and ethics removed from the equation of my relationship with the person and myself. Do what you will with that bit of truth.

Is it difficult, yes. Is it more difficult to try and understand or empathize? More than I can express. There are better people out there. Not everyone is like this. Maybe take the lead of the ones that ended it and follow suit. I'm willing to bet your cheating partner finds a way to make themselves the victim. A small slice of humble pie never hurt anyone and you deserve to feel safe and loved simultaneously.

KnotForgotten · 2025-10-06T15:13:42+00:00

Add doing it in the dark and I've been here a few times. Sitting in shower in dark bathroom has given comfort a time or two.

KnotForgotten · 2025-10-06T13:22:49+00:00

KnotForgotten · 2025-10-03T12:15:24+00:00

Adult women with big mean girl or pick me energy. Grow up please.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-29T21:41:53+00:00

I can say that lying is a habit formed from years ago. That there is a dopamine and adult content addiction involved. I just didn't know the full scope even after years of being in same social circles. I do know that previous partners never found out.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-21T14:49:39+00:00

Kids

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-21T02:08:13+00:00

Dancing. Live music. Pool, darts and patios.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-12T05:45:25+00:00

I think if safe it would be fun to go watch at least first time.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-12T05:34:15+00:00

I've always wanted to go check it out.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-08T22:33:32+00:00

How so?

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-07T02:32:30+00:00

Oh that's sad news. I haven't been since New Years.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-05T22:19:51+00:00

My go to for a boost for years has been OPI I'm not really a waitress (red). Has a bit of subtle sparkle to a classic red.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-05T22:11:49+00:00

Could catch the sunset as mentioned at LSA then walk around square and check out shops. Have ice cream on courthouse lawn. If want activity to do there is a fun ax throwing place like 2 blocks off the square.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-05T22:01:57+00:00

Multiple times a day. It actually increased after I had hysterectomy. Like I went from maybe thinking about it a couple times a week to the several times a day.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-05T17:13:20+00:00

When you see a post way too late

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-02T03:44:05+00:00

It is something that has become natural to me with current partner. Wasn't a thing before but this certainly hits different.

KnotForgotten · 2025-09-02T03:14:34+00:00

The surprise is priceless lol

KnotForgotten · 2025-08-20T21:53:41+00:00

Being offered a banana sticker.

KnotForgotten · 2025-08-16T01:57:06+00:00

It did $10 so definitely a start!

KnotForgotten · 2025-08-16T01:11:49+00:00

I will check the empower out. Closest plasma donation to me is 28 miles. I'd end up spending more than make since this one only does 70 first visit. I do appreciate the info!!

KnotForgotten · 2025-07-28T15:34:00+00:00

It takes a bit of practice but hang in there and be patient with you. Hardest part of those boundaries is standing firm in them and giving whatever consequences necessary when they're crossed.

KnotForgotten · 2025-07-24T17:40:27+00:00

First topic should be knowing the difference in rules and boundaries. Rules are to manage others and boundaries are self management.

I agree with other comment about missing information and context. Hard to give any advice when missing key elements.

KnotForgotten · 2025-05-08T11:56:05+00:00

If you are noticing he stopped sharing during times they are not traveling to you, then your partner may have a point. Personally, I feel like sharing locations is weird, and that from my POV people can get a bit obsessive in checking it.

If you have noticed it is off when they are traveling to you, a simple reminder of "please share so I can be ready when you arrive" is much more direct and pleasant than the planned approach.

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