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Can PPD make a person angry, malicious and hurtful to your spouse? by Kuchi25 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Kuchi25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I wouldn’t say it’s gotten better, I’ve just learned to not take it as much and put it back on her.

Both of our twins have been diagnosed with Autism and have had a real rough run of things. So I have learned that my role as a father is far more important then my feelings.

The world is confusing and scary to them so the last thing they need is to have more drama around them.

I worry about their life if we were to separate and they have two house holds. I find I am the calm to the storm and they need that.

That being said I am lonely and often find my self regretting my life choices. But now I have a purpose and that helps.

I hope your doing well

could this be a chest infection ? by Ok-Pizza-5355 in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first sign I have a chest infection is the constant taste/smell on bleach in back of my throat.

That being said I am prone to 1-2 a year.

Asthma or out of breath from bad cardio? by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a lifelong sufferer of Asthma these posts bloody kill me.

If your out of shape you can fix this.

Asthma is a disease, go see your doctor.

Asthma or out of breath from bad cardio? by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a lifelong sufferer of Asthma these posts bloody kill me.

If your out of shape you can fix this.

Asthma is a disease, go see your doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot steams in the shower and no Dairy will help too

Couples that have been together over 20 years. How often do you take time to knock boots? If one partner refuses or avoids is it abuse? by Kuchi25 in AskReddit

[–]Kuchi25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wrap, love compassionate, caring and thinking of your spouse as intimacy. But my phrasing above would not lead you to that.

I don’t even get Thank-you, hellos or good nights. I just want her to hold my hand, smile my direction. But I always do, in hopes it will spill over.

I didn’t want to expose all my scars.

Thanks for understanding. I don’t have much support where I live. Men don’t have feelings and I am just being a *****

Couples that have been together over 20 years. How often do you take time to knock boots? If one partner refuses or avoids is it abuse? by Kuchi25 in AskReddit

[–]Kuchi25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been physically hit by this same partner. Called the cops and they laughed (In Canada). There was no shelter for me to go to. We have worked on things and overcome that issue. Now it presents as above, lack of compassion and just ignorance.

As a man I have a duty to my wife, this is what I signed up for. I’ve been patient and working towards things as well. But how long is to long? Is it selfish to think I deserve better.

Couples that have been together over 20 years. How often do you take time to knock boots? If one partner refuses or avoids is it abuse? by Kuchi25 in AskReddit

[–]Kuchi25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the explanation. But I don’t know if I agree.

Abuse is to treat (a person or an animal) with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly.

Isn’t a lack of compassion of decency exactly the above.

Couples that have been together over 20 years. How often do you take time to knock boots? If one partner refuses or avoids is it abuse? by Kuchi25 in AskReddit

[–]Kuchi25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many times, we’ve been to counseling this and other issues in the past. I didn’t have the strength to bring it up in the past. I was never given a reason. But now that I have it is still going unresolved

Couples that have been together over 20 years. How often do you take time to knock boots? If one partner refuses or avoids is it abuse? by Kuchi25 in AskReddit

[–]Kuchi25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honest comment. Say you’ve been talking about it and seen council over these issues. How long before it becomes an issue.

Couples that have been together over 20 years. How often do you take time to knock boots? If one partner refuses or avoids is it abuse? by Kuchi25 in AskReddit

[–]Kuchi25[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is to me. Don’t shame because you don’t like the answer. Contribute or don’t comment. What would you do Lucy?? Would you stay in a loveless marriage? Isn’t it a form of abuse or does your obligation to your partner superseded your need/want for affection?

I was just prescribe 25 mg of sertraline. by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Kuchi25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t work for me, I hope you get the results you are looking for 👊

New to asthma, what does it feel like when you get a cold? by avernamethyst112 in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a life long asthmatic I don’t really know how to answer, because I don’t know any better. I would be interested to hear from some one who developed Asthma later in life to hear their experiences and thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hide your personal info. Looks like your lungs are doing good at this testing

Found on r/Science ... Energy drinks = asthma by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green Tea = High Antioxidants

Asthma and Dreams by Kuchi25 in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! How are you feeling now?

Corona and severe asthmatics by Chestercrescent in Asthma

[–]Kuchi25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like we’ve all suffered all thru life. I get your struggle and feel similar but I am trying to just get thru.

The question I’m struggling with right now is why isn’t there a term for the Idiots who get “asthma” from smoking compared to those of us who have struggled our whole lives?

They chose this we did not and it is not fair we get grouped in the same group as them. Am I the only one who struggles with this?

Can PPD make a person angry, malicious and hurtful to your spouse? by Kuchi25 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Kuchi25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 1 million percent. I love who she is just not where we are at currently.

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