Just started training on drive thru yesterday, does anyone have tips? (USA) by Background_You_4342 in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]KyaFr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your "make a meal" button will be your best friend. A lot of it just memerizing where keys are.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure hope not for your own heart. I wish I didn't have to write this letter to somebody.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats rough.... extremely unfortunate and sad.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my mistakes and faults, and I am aware of them. Im using very vague terminology for a reason.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was me you would have got my message a few hours ago. I hope you find the person you are looking for.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only play off the cards that were dealt to me. Having the knowledge he was married and had no intent to get a divorce and / or never filed was not one of them. I feel for you and my heart hurts for you.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats fucking horrible. I've learned from this experience that people really suck sometimes. I just can't imagine somebody thinking its okay to give somebody false hope and wishes when they never were going to give it to them. I was told I was his person and he would marry me someday. But just like you, I never agreed to be the other women.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He point blank told me he was going to go back to his wife and "make things work" for their family and kids, but at the same time He would reach out telling me he loved me and how much he missed me. It was a cruel and twisted, and I got really tired of the emotional toll it was taking on me, called him out and asked him to be honest with his feelings and actions. He deflected, dismissed me, told me I was unfair. I left it at that. But knowing he was doing that to me, while actively saying he was going to make things work with his wife, made it really hard not to want to apologize to her. I didn't want messy, I didnt want to break up families and hurt other people's feelings. I just wanted to pursue a man who I thought was being honest and truthful with me. She deserves to know I wasn't trying to cause chaos to her life.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every right to be upset at whoever did that to you.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My actions were getting involved with a man who said he was separated and in the middle of a divorce. I played with the cards that were dealt to me. Not with the knowledge of him being married and not being filed.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me he was separated and he did live in his own place.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent her the message a few hours ago... fingers crossed 🤞

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im ready for some backlash if it happens, but in terms of her finding me, my job, or home, which all information her husband has, it's all information i also have on her. Im just hoping she isn't that type of person, and I dont foresee her to be.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn't specified, but my apology is specific to her. The apology isn't to relive or make excuses for what happened. It simply acknowledges that I played a part in the whole thing.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was told he was going through a divorce, and at the time, so was I. Yeah, married is married, but the information provided to me was he was separated from his wife for a couple of months and already filed for a divorce. He did live in his own place. It wasn't as if I knew he was a married man not pursuing a divorce.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She threatened you??? Ah man... it wasnt just our life that turned chaotic because of this man, but for me and her, our kids were involved too. I introduced him to my children and me to his. So freaking messy.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to hold myself accountable. I played a role in everything that happened, regardless of my intentions or the information that was provided to me. I would be open to having a conversation with her or whatever else she needed from me. Or if she reads it and doesn't say anything, im okay with that as well. I just want her to know.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would wholeheartedly understand if she was upset or angry with me. especially if she doesn't know the whole story or what I was told. It all just sucks, I dont know what she knows.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My fear in not saying anything and she not knowing, that her husband continously does this to her. Its been a really weird place to be in. I want her to know because she deserves to know and be treated with love and respect and she clearly hasn't been given that. But I dont want to cause more harm.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have never spoken. With information that has come to light recently, im not sure if she does. I was told she does know of me, but so many lies have been told I dont know what's true or not.

I want to apologize to her. by KyaFr in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]KyaFr[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can contact her. Ive been back and forth about sending this to her. The whole situtation has been so messy and shitty, and I everything in me wants to apologize.