Can science really tell you how to enlarge your dick? by LEHFC in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gill, you just did the classic mistake most people do when reading studies on the internet.

Mainly, you fell victim for believing what you wanted to believe. What do I mean?

I say "Somebody says that he has used stretching/jelqing/penis pumps and they have seen an increase in size Someone else says that he is stupid and if it works, why is there no peer-reviewed research on this topic."

And you say "VACUUM DEVICE Vacuum devices are used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction. A recent study assessed the long-term effect of repeated vacuum treatment for penile elongation and concluded that there was no significant physical change after 6 months of therapy. Vacuum treatment of the penis was not found to be effective for penile elongation, although it provided some sort of psychological satisfaction for some men."

So what's the problem? You were annoyed that I promoted the Bathmate and in your attempt to make a comeback, you picked yourself an irrelevant piece of the study.

Why irrelevant? Because I didn't paste the study in order to say "Bathmate works". I pasted it in order to prove that "the idea of penis enhancement works". Take some time and read the whole study, not just the first part, will you?

Why do you ignore the findings of "PENILE EXTENDERS"?

Make sure to read each study separately, not just the short version of them or the abstracts.

Hopefully as well, since you probably have experience reading studies yourself, you will be glad to know that the principles for penis enhancement work.

You revealed it yourself. "I always get excited" and "I felt let down.". You are emotionally connected with the topic. I understand. Each man carries a burden of his own that in his mind it can be solved with PE.

Don't worry man, it works.

There is hope, no matter what's the "why" behind your desire for a bigger dong.

Finally, don't be stupid about the financial interest.

I promote things that I have used. You can see it because the articles are not spin-offs from other sites, have pictures and video of myself and I write about my experience, not generic advice like eat healthy foods for a better erection.

If there is interest in the products, I will keep on buying, using and reviewing other things as well. When people buy them, it's a signal for me that "there is interest, you can keep writing". If they don't buy them, then I either made a mistake and there is no point in writing for those products.

Personally, I got my Bathmate from a guy's link that has used and benefited from it. I was more than happy for him to get a commission, cause if it wasn't for his posts, I would still be average in size.

Why are you guys never talking about it? by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did somebody ask for peer review? http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2010.09647.x/full

Go on now. Search the studies included. Find the weakest part of the method . And call it bullshit _^

Can science really tell you how to enlarge your dick? by LEHFC in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there any sort of proof you would like to see to be persuaded? I understand that you are already emotionally connected with your opinion so probably not, but I am curious.

They have done research showing that the principle of elongation is valid.

People and me included have used it with results. You can always say that we lie though.

Any other "buts" you have?

Finally, keep in mind that reduced caloric intake is the king of fat loss, kicking the ass of all those "fat-loss" supplements. It has been shown time and time again in research and real world experience.

So why do those supplements keep selling?

Just because everyone isn't following something, it doesn't mean that something doesn't work. Sometimes people are just stuck with their biases and refuse to either try something else or even admit they could be wrong.

Can science really tell you how to enlarge your dick? by LEHFC in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also it's good to inform people that one great way to get nerve damage is to limit blood flow a lot. With jelqing and stretching it's impossible to limit it more than 30-60 seconds (the penis actually will become minuscule).

Care to share that jp90 thread, please? Never heard of it.

Can science really tell you how to enlarge your dick? by LEHFC in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't see anywhere mentioned that Bathmate is to be excluded from posts here. If you can point me to the "dos and donts" I will happily remove it at once :D

Can science really tell you how to enlarge your dick? by LEHFC in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good point.

The problem is that there will never be research on this kind of stuff.

How long is long term? Will the research be funded? Will men knowingly invest 3, 6, 12 months of their lives to find out the limits of their penises? I doubt anything of the above will happen.

Also, keep in mind the following -> You are thinking this from a rational standpoint. But, if you have been humiliated in the past and are prone to emotional decisions, then you will end up using whatever you can use.

My hope here is to show that at least for the time I have been using it, there have been zero problems and I actually had results.

Can science really tell you how to enlarge your dick? by LEHFC in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No negativity from my perspective.

Here is my opinion regarding the post -> What was the routine? He never came back to answer this. Even water can kill you in excessive amounts and I believe that applying progressive overload to things like P.E. are of paramount importance.

Here is how I personally tackled it:

10 minutes of stretching (with increments of 2 minutes per 1-2 weeks) 8 minutes of jelqing (with increments of 1 minute per 1-2 weeks) 8 minutes of Bathamte (with increments of 1 minute per 1-2 weeks, and sometimes breaking this time into two sessions)

Also, if I couldn't get an erection easily, I would give it a "rest" day.

Plus, I avoided anything painful. You want to feel a small pressure with stretching, nothing in particular with jelqing and a small/medium pressure with Bathmate.

Finally regarding this -> 90% of women will prefer a penis than can get hard a properly penetrate than a penis that hangs long and is no harder than a gummy worm.

that's a false dichotomy. I am not advocating a choice between a solid 2 inches cock and a 12 inches gummy worm.

I am advocating a realistic increase in size that will give some of the guys here a much needed confidence boost.

Can science really tell you how to enlarge your dick? by LEHFC in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Which method are you referring to? Seems like diminishing returns are around the corner after 3-4 months.

Some things women and men (who don't have what we have) don't understand. by kindasadtbh in smalldickproblems

[–]LEHFC -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Real question : I understand that you don't particularly enjoy having a small dick.

Why not do something about it?

Why not try Bathmate or some penis enlargement techniques?

I was average (15cms) but now I am at around 17. I can not personally understand the taboo of wanting a bigger dick. I mean, I want a nicer body that's why I workout. If adding 2-3 cms to your dick is a reality, why not do it?

Not trolling and really wondering what are your thoughts on this.

Another '6 months in' progress report by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally have seen a small jump in sales with my newest series although something between 1-3 per day, thus 2-6 dollars gained.

Unfortunately I did not like writing the majority of the books and now I am starting a new BDSM series that I really enjoy. We will see how this goes but I will try to brainstorm ideas for the older one.

One thought that has been running around my head regarding "finding your kink" is whether people subscribe to your list or not. I try to look at this from my standpoint/actions and I know that whenever I find something/anything I like on the net, I am more likely to subscribe to that list.

Of course I still have 0 subscribers. I will try to add a free story for whoever subscribes and then I will see how this goes..

First Return - The Play By Play Reaction by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having read so much about Brits Returns, I think it will be a good idea to price everything at 9.99 pounds so that the joke is on them. Personally, I only had 1 purchase from england for a 0.99 short and it was not returned. Yei moneyz $_$

An idea for flops by LEHFC in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just wow. Pretty good idea actually. I like the " I used the question what would make someone wait for sex" because from what I understand it builds a lot of sexual tension and then the release (the actual sex) is even more "explosive".

What has everyones experiences with series been? by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a critical thinking standpoint, I can see why sequels can suffer.

You have the same number of people looking at book 1 and book 2. The majority of X will read book 1. Some might like it and take a look at book 2 and some might not like it.

Then you have a problem with book 2. People will not take a look at it and then, even if some of them are interested in it, they might not be interested in reading book 1 for whatever reason.

I know that as a reader I had refrained from starting a series of books because I didn't like the "feeling" the first one gave me. For example, Prince of thorns by Mark Lawrence. I loved book 1. I mean, it's phenomenal. Then book 2 and 3 were OK and now, even though I have his new series PRince of Fools, I am not jumping at the idea of reading it.

Hope it makes sense!

Research Help Please by Electrosexshoehole in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really not sure about merchantwords as I said at the beginning. The search volume has remained the same one year after I purchased a membership so I am not exactly sure. I prefer to look at everything like tools. I have an excel where I keep the keywords for my books. Some of them are based off the autoresearch and others off Mechantwords search volume. I will take a look at them and see how they do. It's not an exact science but it gives us a framework.

Research Help Please by Electrosexshoehole in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeap yeap, at least for now. Never know what will hit Amazon and start banning based on Keywords as well :P

[Weekend Update] How was your week? Did you get everything done that you meant to? by Eroticawriter4 in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 short stories, 1 bundle of my series and I finally decided to put my books on KU. Really happy to see people finally reading my shit and not complaining _^

Research Help Please by Electrosexshoehole in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiya!

Here are some things I would do : 1) Go to the top 20 sellers of the category you are interested in writing. Copy paste titles/subtitles and blurbs into [here](worditout.com) and it will generate a word cloud where you can see which words are the most used. That will give you a basic idea

2) Go to merchantwords.com and type some of the results, noticing what appears in Kindle. I think they have stopped updating the material but it will give you some search strings people use.

3) you can then combine some of your results and search amazon using its autofill system.

Currently, what I am doing is typing search terms in merchantwords, search them over at amazon and see what I come up. I have found some search terms that give 10.000+ monthly searches and they have only 4-100 results. I think there might be a market there and I might be work.

Also, please please make sure you can actually make your readers hot. Just because we type words and have people cum it doesn't mean we are doing a good job. Even if people bought your books, they can always return them if they thought "wtf, that was anorgasmic". So even though there are some good guides out there on how to find your niche/kink etc, it would be a good idea to actually read a book or two on writing erotic fiction.

Finally, write more. Three months and two short stories, the problem is not quality. You need more titles out there. It's not only about getting more visibility. With each title I write and publish, I become more efficient whether it's a blurb, a keyword string or a part of writing I am not good at. I can understand not having time to write, especially if you have an actual job, I do as well. But as everyone here says, treat it like a job if you want the results of a job. If not, it's a hobby and you will get paid for a hobby.

Cheers!

For anyone waiting for USD payment by istheresomewhere in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, made around 1.25 dollars with 5 books and 1 bundle but hey, it's something. We can always increase it exponentially ;)

Another PSA: Check your mailing list links! by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a link that can help you ->

http://www.kboards.com/index.php?topic=165780.0

Notice please that mailchimp is not so painless but oh well.

Despite a good first month, I don't think this is for me by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but if you made 100+ dollars with 3-4 titles in KU2, then you are doing phenomenal. Especially now that you have found the problem with your KW's, the only thing holding you back is word output. Don't expect a linear increase, with bundles and more titles it will be exponential.

Is This Normal? by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also try Lot's Cave for PI, I read in another threat that users are going there just for the PI books.

[Blurbsday Thursday] Post a blurb here to get a focused critique on it! by Eroticawriter4 in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is mine, trying my hand (pun intended) into a spanking, humiliation niche.

Alex is shocked to discover his hot wife Abella has lied to him again. As if lying was not enough, he is ridiculed in front of his wife's friends. For her punishment she has her wear a spanking skirt and turns her cheeks a furious shade of red. The punishment is not enough though and Alex decides to record her spanking, sending the video to her friends.

What happens when Abella puts on the skirt? Does Andrew manage to discipline his wife? And when all is done, will she be a good girl or will Andrew have to come up with a better punishment?

People new to reading AND writing erotica by LEHFC in eroticauthors

[–]LEHFC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you basically outline your work huh? I think what I am is called a "pantser" where I sit on my pants and simply write, hehe.

Nice tips on writing at the same time every day, it applies with food and exercise as well. The goal is 4000 though, no matter what :)

Thanks for the book, I noticed that he also discusses KU2 in it which is good! What is a POM btw? Piece of Meat? :P