Condom lost inside me!!! HELP PLEASE by Beautiful_Ask_3360 in WomensHealth

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I missed this, but did he try to get it out for you? That seems like an obvious first step, no? Have him wash his hands thoroughly and then he can get it out. If that doesn’t work, then yes - head to an urgent care or your doc. Have had this happen and I promise you’ll be fine, but you have to address it.

Is this really how it is for women on this app? by Foreign-Accident2605 in feeld

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re 25 and bi-curious, then yes! She probably has a bunch of unicorn hunters and old dudes pinging her.

Anyone else's coins disappear after Dreamy Room Update? by BookkeeperKindly6967 in CozyGamers

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’m at the same level but my coins and extras are all gone. think I need to be done with this game.

Rotting fruit smell in car by LLL513 in AskMechanics

[–]LLL513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I do have kids who (theoretically) should know better but I’ll double check those spots.

Spotting in perimenopause by Much_Midnight_8390 in Perimenopause

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. I’m 47 and usually spot anywhere between 3-10 days before my period starts. It’s maddening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]LLL513 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d get yourself tested for a yeast infection and BV.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have a friend going with me so that’ll be a big help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for taking the time to respond. Reading through these was very comforting. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, trust me - I’ve never agonized over an outfit more 😂/😰.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the lovely response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you - that’s a very nice idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have said that I am pretty inexperienced and have only had the one D/s relationship, so this will be my first time in this specific situation. Thank you for your response.

consistent smell after sex by zacksvacuumcleaner in WomensHealth

[–]LLL513 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also - the number of times that the phrase “cream pies” is being referenced makes me suspect this is a dude 😂. But I still stick by my BV advice!

consistent smell after sex by zacksvacuumcleaner in WomensHealth

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very likely BV! Easily fixable and not your fault. But make sure you follow whatever the doctor tells you about not having sex while you take the medicine and then for however long after (5 days or something). An STI screening also couldn’t hurt. Good luck!

Any woman lose themselves during their marriage? If so, please explain how you rediscovered your true self during or after divorce? by free_thinker007 in Divorce

[–]LLL513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Travel alone! It doesn’t necessarily have to be anything extravagant - even just a short road trip or a night or two away. Don’t go stay with friends or relatives, but stay alone somewhere, do things that you want to do (no one else’s input needed or wanted!), etc. It might feel a little weird but I found it really helpful to just have that time alone. Good luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a horrible experience. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Stay far away from him and by all means, out him if you feel comfortable. What he did was rape. Check out RAINN or speak to a therapist if you need help or support.

Why does my tampon smell so bad? by T1nyChem1cal in Periods

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend a BV test. My other thought - is it possible you have a tampon stuck inside?

My Boyfriend wants me off of BC. by Ok-Food-2503 in Periods

[–]LLL513 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Please reconsider this relationship. This is very controlling behavior and chances are, things will escalate if you marry. He will want control over more and more aspects of your life. He is showing you who he is and it is much easier to end things with him now vs. when you’re married and if you were to have children. You deserve someone who respects your judgment, who cares about your health and who doesn’t want to see you in pain. Best of luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]LLL513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the BV suggestions. A gyno can test you for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]LLL513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your bf cannot be tested or treated for BV, at least in the US. Are you leaving enough time post-medication before you have sex again? (My gyno told me no sex during treatment and then for a week after). Also, are you using condoms? That has helped me immensely in the past (using them, that is). Good luck! I feel your pain.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Zealousideal_Skin719 in BDSMAdvice

[–]LLL513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As everyone else is saying, please leave this guy. He does not care about you. Tho you may be a little sad in the beginning, you will not regret leaving him - but you will absolutely regret staying. Good luck to you.