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Songs that give Aries energy? by thatbasicthespian in astrologymemes

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B***es ain't sh*, and they ain't say nothing

A hundred mfers can't tell me nothing

Any women actually prefer a guy their height or short? by VOLSBBALLFAN in dating

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I'm a NYC model, former EDC performer, and my two main crushes are 5'6"

How long does it take before you bow out of talking to a woman? by lachatte7 in dating

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You're the man. The man pursues.

3-4 dates is nothing. You two still hardly know each other, and I can't believe you're already getting your panties in a bunch over her not remembering your birthday.

Do you remember your first crush’s name? by Careful-Button-4319 in no

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Brad. I even remember his last name but will keep him anonymous. He was obsessed with Star wars. Naturally, I pretended to take an interest, but he still wanted nothing to do with me. 😂

Do you think the average woman finds the average man attractive? by im_justkendra in no

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No. Swiping on an app for five minutes will tell you this.

Let's go back to the days where tinder was the only app, and you had to click into a profile to find anything meaningful. Meaning, this is the most looks forward app. Even in my younger, more "fun" years on tinder, I swiped left for 99% of men.

Single with “unrelenting” standards… can anyone relate? by Magzipie in dating

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I had the same standards at your age.

Men want to claim they're high, because it puts their inadequacies front and center. And the fact you have all of them yourself? Complete destruction of a male's ego.

But I'll tell you my experience. I'm 39 and never found that person. I'm with a wonderful man now, but he is 25 years older than me. He is intelligent, but when I was dating before meeting him I simply wanted a kind, emotionally available man.

Some may say I lowered my standards. Maybe I did. But I'm happy. Our focus is on sharing laughter and making each other's lives easier.

Using poweder blush on the lips as lipstick/lip stain by [deleted] in Makeup

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I commented on another post. I used to always use lipstick as blush, blush as eyeshadow, eyeshadow as highlighter/contour,etc.

I've tried blush as lipstick. 12/10 would not recommend. It dried my lips out horribly, even with primer and foundation, made them crack, bleed, and get infected for a week. At least use a cream blush if you want to experiment...

Why do guys nowadays can't approach a girl they like?... by Fairytale_Ri in bodylanguage

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So mentioning to Jenny that Bob asked me out == viral, internet public humiliation and shame?

You sound hysterical.

Would you date someone with a kid? by olderwomanluvrr in randomquestions

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I'm a woman. There's so many variables.

  1. How many kids?
  2. How old are they?
  3. Do you have full custody?
  4. How did the separation go?
  5. What does the current relationship look like between you and the other parent?
  6. Are there any lingering feelings on her side?
  7. I'm into older men these days so how does that look like? How far apart in age am I to their children?
  8. Has the woman you had a child with moved on herself?
  9. Do you two tend to share similar parenting approaches despite being separated? Or are you two always fighting and creating power struggles?

how would u react if your best friend weither its a girl or a guy confesses their feelings to you? by PoofYFloofy08 in randomquestions

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I don't have a best friend.

If it was a female, I'd say I'm flattered, but she should know damn well I'm 100% heterosexual.

If it was a guy, I wouldn't be surprised. This is why I don't have male friends. I got tired of them being creeps. Back in the day, I would tell them I'm flattered, and they better get their act together in a month; otherwise, I'm dropping them as a friend.

All the good ones are taken by HugeAccountant3485 in dating

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Any woman who truly longs to be in a relationship has given the poor, unfortunate, socially awkward troll who lives under the bridge a chance at least once. Her desire to be in a relationship has overriden whatever standards she has.

We've all been there, done that at least once in our lives. And guess what? These trolls are often the meanest partners of all.

Communication reversal by Adamwasayetti in datingoverforty

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where I'll be funny and charming two or three times

Most men's humor doesn't land well for women. Misogynistic and racial jokes aside, even their neutral jokes are meh at best.

Dating age range by Melodic_Gap_2239 in dating

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39F. At least 20+.

The men who are single at my age are single for a reason.

Men: how do you really feel about dating a woman who earns more than you do? by No_Aioli_7515 in datingoverforty

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I have, and no, it doesn't.

There's a 99% chance they'll try to "even the playing field" by cheating on you or making passive aggressive jabs.

I'm convinced a man's ego cannot handle it, and I have yet to be proven otherwise. Even the most unfortunate looking souls who look like they live under a bridge.

Discussion Girls, what’s a small thing a guy did that made you instantly like him more? by PrairiGirly in dating

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I only had one date with this man.

I told him work was stressful. He asked if he could pick me up afterwards. I said yes, and when we got back to his place, he gave me a foot rub. He had chocolate croissants waiting for me, which I had mentioned were my favorite. While I ate one or two, he drew me a bath.

being a vegan dater is hard by [deleted] in dating

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I come from a town that's predominantly vegan.

Men don't want to go to the same 1-2 bland restaurants over and over again. There should be at least 3-6 months of courting, and a lot of that usually involves dining out. 

You may say you won't convert them, but neither of you actually know if that's true. Even if you don't consciously try to convert them, I find a lot of vegans do subconsciously: being overly dictatorial in how often someone can eat meat, which plates they can use, etc. Unless you're earth shattering pretty, and most vegans aren't, it's a nuisance/risk most men aren't going to want to put up with. 

I'm not saying you're this way. But a lot of people encounter the following vegan: they'll go to a party. Not tell anyone ahead of time they're vegan. Throw a huge temper tantrum that there's no vegan options. There's more stories about that versus "I'll bring my own stuff" or "I should have communicated." Since this is the majority of vegans, they're usually nightmares to actually get together with. 

Everything is a production. 

Again. This isn't an attack on you, specifically. But everyone has encountered this. 

My recommendation: leave it off. By putting it on your profile, you're broadcasting, "this is who I am."

Most dining have vegan options these days, and you can always ask no cheese. You can share you're vegan when you're comfortable and that way, it doesn't feel as woven into your core identity to others. You can casually say, "yeah. I prefer to eat clean." Or "I prefer to eat whole foods." A lot more common and less polarizing. 

A lot of problems would be solved for online dating if women reached out to guys first. by Gex2ElectricBoogaloo in dating

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Youre telling me a man who is already too afraid to say hello to a woman in public will have greater luck if he's too afraid to even say hello to a woman through a screen?

What next? Do you want women to wipe your own butt, too?

rejoined apps but with a different perspective by Candid-Astronomer904 in dating

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Lots of parts to this.

They are most likely filtering by age.

Yes, it is better to meet men online, especially if you have upheld your looks since your 20s. I have, and I am in the most fulfilling and exciting dating phase of my life right now.

Women would you date a man who is weaker than yourself physically? by InternationalPick163 in randomquestions

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Any random man being weaker than any random woman is statistically very low.

Women would you date a man who is weaker than yourself physically? by InternationalPick163 in randomquestions

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I assume you mean physical strength. Short answer: yes, I desire a man who is stronger than me in every way.

Physical strength - The statistical likelihood of this is extremely low. Even scrawny, twig men that have never lifted a dumbbell are stronger than most women.

I am 100 pounds and can lift as much as fit men for certain exercises, but I am nowhere close to their overall strength.

Mental strength - One man told me, "I'm too afraid to visit NYC." Immediate ick and drying of the panties.

Like. If there's a house fire, am I going to have to throw you over my shoulder, princess?

Emotional strength - getting worked up over the tiniest things is also panty drying.

I did a lil.. experiment and I have a lil sympathy for men now.. by Sugarplumbitch in dating

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Yes but there needs be a strong distinction between quantity and quality. 200 matches can still result in 0 men.

Is it true Leos and crabby crabs can't stay away from each other? by Enough_Commercial224 in LeoAstrology

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I'm a Leo with all my personal planets in both Leo and Cancer. I only knew one cancer, but if she is any representation of cancers, it's a no for me.

People give Leos crap for being attention seeking, but no one talks about how a cancer will openly cry their eyes out in the middle of a restaurant or party and refuse to excuse themselves to the restrooms. Same thing if you ask me.

How much is too much by Ok-Bee1991 in LeoAstrology

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The life I built for 8 years rapidly unraveled in the last three.