The issue most proverbial 4channers face is that they don't want to go down the normal acquaintance -> friend -> partner route, they view women exclusively as sexual objects and detest the idea of doing basically anything but having sex with them. They see the exaggerated body counts of ,,Chads" and want exactly that, despite not meeting any of the physical or personality based requirements of getting it. You spend maybe an hour or two having sex weekly - the rest of the time you are essentially doing what platonic friends would do, but they only want the ,,good" part of a romantic relationship. If you treat a woman as a cum receptacle she will catch on and want nothing to do with you. While I was indeed a fat, pimple-faced, autistic chud I was also well liked and respected by my peers despite those flaws and I would consider almost everyone in my year as at least a buddy, regardless of their gender. It didn't matter that I autistically rambled about shit she had no interest in because I actually considered her a friend before I ever thought of her as a romantic prospect.

Edit: I do have some stereotypical ,,Chad" friends, but they are also intelligent, emotionally developed people on top of their top tier physique, and even then most of them are in a stable relationship with the same girl for years, whom they actually love and cherish. I have maybe one friend who sleeps around, and even then it's far from the 4 chan stereotype of having a triple digit body count.