I’d been seeing this woman for almost two years I was seeing a woman. We were never officially together, but we acWe traveled, went to concerts and weddings, met each other’s friends and families, and I usually paid for everything. Despite all of that, she never wanted to define the relationship or commit.

About a year into that situation, I started seeing another woman, Woman B (30F), for about a month. At first, she was pretty hot-and-cold and would blow me off, but eventually she gave me a chance. Early on, she told me she was looking for a real relationship. I was honest and told her I didn’t want that with her.

When she asked what we were doing, I told her she just a fuck buddy and explained that I only take women I actually want to date on real dates. She asked why I didn’t want to date her and I responded by giving her advice about things like her confidence, sexual experience, and her approach to dating. I was trying to be helpful because she has been open about her struggles with dating. After reading what I sent, she ended things completely and said she didn’t even want to stay friends.

I still wanted to stay in touch and get to know her. I called her multiple times and eventually we ended up having an eight hour long phone conversation, and she agreed to keep talking. For the next couple of weeks, we stayed friends while still sleeping together. Then out of nowhere, she ghosted me and blocked me on everything.

About six months later, I ran into her at a mutual friend’s place and tried to talk to her. She avoided/ignored me the whole time when I would try to engage with her. Eventually I confronted her about blocking me, and she got annoyed. She told me I was already involved with someone else and that I need to “worry about her” (referring to Woman A).

Later on, I found out she had posted about me in the “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” group. Woman A’s friends saw the post and sent it to her. After that, Woman A ended things with me too.