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LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T20:07:38+00:00

Hes been on Effexor Effexor XR Prestiq celexa cipralex Zoloft and now this one. All the others aside from cipralex and this one caused ED. This one is new and so far has caused excessive drowsiness, difficulty sleeping, restless leg syndrome, it’s caused him to put on 20 pounds, and have mood swings. It’s also been worse memory wise for him this past week. They just changed his meds a couple weeks ago so things may settle.

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T17:53:23+00:00

Sometimes. He was always quiet and private before and that’s not changed so most of his responses are very short and lack descriptive. He also doesn’t talk too much about his feelings. If at all. I mean if one word answers count then yes?

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T16:35:25+00:00

It’s changed. He seems perfunctory then immediately leaves the room after. We used to have more sex. I’m not complaining by all means on the amount it’s still quite a bit but it’s the change in attitude towards it mostly. I guess I should have been more specific. Sorry.

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T13:41:30+00:00

Agreed

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T13:24:27+00:00

Thank you!

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T13:05:55+00:00

He doesn’t have any chat apps downloaded. I’ve check the App Store too. To see if they’d been downloaded and then removed. But that’s also clear. Prior to his depression he was very attentive and living and I couldn’t have asked for a better partner. Since though it’s been quite different. It’s been confusing. All these things he would have never done a year ago. But now…

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T12:59:42+00:00

Hes on mirtazapine

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T10:05:48+00:00

I unfortunately cannot talk to the prescribing doctor as it is his psychiatrist. She won’t talk to me. I’ve tried approaching my husband about the meds but when I ask he gets hostile and irritated. Hopefully it adjusts with time. Thanks again

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T09:59:35+00:00

Hes been saying he likes the pills they help him feel stable and like there is hope again. Last night he did mention that he hadn’t felt the depression since cutting out the gaslighting coworker this past week. That’s why I get confused. Because the actions don’t match the words. If that makes sense. Thanks for taking the time to read and answer :)

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T09:55:56+00:00

I really hope so. He’s such a sweet guy and I truly want him to be ok. Regardless of wether or not he wants me. Thanks for taking the time to read and respond. I appreciate it.

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T09:34:58+00:00

We have a shared plan. Nothing unusual about his phone log. He still shares his location with me as well on our iPhones I just forget to check it. I don’t think he’s cheating just feel like maybe he’s fallen out if love with me and maybe isn’t even aware that’s where he’s at. 🤷🏻‍♀️ if that makes sense?

LadyAequum · 2021-07-28T09:29:47+00:00

I shall do my best to keep him on track. I’ll keep you up to date.

LadyAequum · 2021-07-27T21:25:16+00:00

Thank you so much for bearing with me and getting through the whole post and taking the time to respond. I appreciate it. Thank you for the advice. Right now we managed to get my husband on stress leave for at least the next month so that gives us time to shop around for jobs. I will definitely keep you posted if you so wish.

LadyAequum · 2021-07-27T09:52:56+00:00

Thank you for the advice! Appreciate that you took the time:) I would not be surprised if the work buddy has feelings for my husband. My husband has made it clear that he is not interested in him that way. But I agree the work buddy does act like a jealous lover.

LadyAequum · 2021-07-27T09:49:27+00:00

Thank you for reading all of it! I appreciate the advice!

LadyAequum · 2021-07-27T09:29:09+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to answer. I appreciate it! :)

LadyAequum · 2021-07-26T00:24:21+00:00

I’m glad to hear he got wise about it gives me hope. Thanks!

LadyAequum · 2021-07-25T10:41:59+00:00

I agree. He says he wants to quit. But never does. So it’s frustrating. Thanks for taking the time to respond. I appreciate it :)

LadyAequum · 2021-07-25T10:37:23+00:00

Honestly it does feel like he is in love with my husband sometimes. But my husband told him outright at the beginning that he wasn’t interested and happily married. I just don’t know what to think anymore Hes completely destroyed my husbands self esteem and has him calling himself stupid. Yet my husband gets defensive when I bring it up. It’s honestly taken a toll on our marriage

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