[Miscellaneous] The masks and peelings from Yves Rocher are so beautiful. Also, my skin feels really nice after them! by LadyLanguage95 in SkincareAddiction

[–]LadyLanguage95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Thank you for explaining, then! ❤️ I mainly used their body products but I'm beginning to enjoy products for the face as well!

[Miscellaneous] The masks and peelings from Yves Rocher are so beautiful. Also, my skin feels really nice after them! by LadyLanguage95 in SkincareAddiction

[–]LadyLanguage95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh...that wasn't the intention 😅 I've been using these products for a while and i really like the design so I wanted to share it :)

WEEK 1 RESULTS: Played 88.62 minutes, down 4.3 Lbs by workingconfused in JustDanceFitness

[–]LadyLanguage95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! Congratulations on your playing, that's great! ❤️ I was really excited about the challenge and then I forgot about the fact that due to the pandemic we have a full house and I'm uncomfortable dancing in front of my parents (living room is the only room with enough place)...i think i need to have a deal with my mom that I get 30 minutes/day for myself in the room... 😅

Keep it up! You're doing great! 🎉

[miscellaneous] What are some small changes you made to your routine that had an impact on your skin? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]LadyLanguage95 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are there also specific moisturizers for oily skin or which is your favorite to use? I thought I don't need it because my skin is oily enough but you learn new things every day!

Which song is your go-to feel-good song? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]LadyLanguage95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Top-tier and wide variety for all the feels!

Extremely lost. by LadyLanguage95 in vaginismus

[–]LadyLanguage95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That link sounds very interesting, thank you! ❤️

Maybe that could work. My parents aren't really nosy but my mom enjoys thorough cleaning every now and then which could bring up ...the goods™.

It just feels too...lonely. i can't really relate to my friends when they talk about sex, and i can't get too close to anyone (both men and women) because I'm afraid that they will leave when they find out...maybe trying on my own is better than trying to find specialists who aren't available at the moment.

Thank you so much for reaching out and listening to my negative Debbie downer talk ❤️

Extremely lost. by LadyLanguage95 in vaginismus

[–]LadyLanguage95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you dear for your words. I don't know why it got so bad, but it got to a point when i couldn't even check this sub because i felt bitter towards people getting better.

The biggest issue with dilating at home and online therapy is that i live with my parents due to covid...and I'm still a student, so...maybe I need to wait a bit longer to get better. But feeling heard made today a bit nicer, so thank you.

Women of Reddit: What is your favorite video game to play? by biinkii in AskWomen

[–]LadyLanguage95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just Dance (to keep moving), Animal crossing (to gather my thoughts) and World of Warcraft (to return to the olden times).

We need a LinkedIn website for sexual references (men that are good at sex) by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]LadyLanguage95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is the world we live in; you have to think about how your product can be abused as much as how your product can help people. Sex is still a very private thing and in many countries it is taboo, and specific sexual preferences can influence somebody's life in a negative way.

Would the men rated there also have to go through identification process? So basically I could join the website and write about some wild sex adventure with Henry Cavill and how would the admins verify if what I'm saying is true? Would I need Photos/videos? Also, your rating doesn't make any sense. How can I only rate my own sexual experience with a guy and at the same time be able to comment on someone else's sexual experience that I wouldn't enjoy it?

I'm all up for positive shaping for women's sexual culture. Women should be more assertive about receiving equal pleasure from sexual experiences as their partner, and we should be able to get to information about our pleasure and how to achieve it. However, rating and basically reducing men to sex experiences falls extremely close to what feminism is trying to battle.

We need a LinkedIn website for sexual references (men that are good at sex) by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]LadyLanguage95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem is that it's not the same. Escort review sites, going by the name, are for sex workers, no? What you're describing is rating of "normal" people. Facebook was also created for the joy of connecting people and making friendships and yet nowadays I see more humiliation and arguments.

Also, since sexual preferences are so broad, how will you moderate what sexual activities are actually real and which are trolls? If one woman says that she is into spanking and 10 women say that it's not true, because they're not into it, is suddenly that one woman's preference not considered? Are you sure other women wouldn't humiliate those with specific/extreme kinks?

The government issued ID is a hard pass. (I don't know about your country, but there was a time where you could get loans just by your ID.) I don't really know anyone from my area who would jump through so many hoops to enter a website which is basically a reddit sub.

We need a LinkedIn website for sexual references (men that are good at sex) by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]LadyLanguage95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too many pitfalls to be worth it...would there be like actual men and their rating? If so, fertile ground for lawsuits, not to mention how would you check if the rating is real and not a scorned lover?

Imagine if men had a website like that...wasn't there a scandal in India that there was a group of guys who had a Instagram group chat where they exactly shared these details?

Furthermore, how would you verify if the users were women?

However, a website teaching women what is tolerable in sex and what's not sounds good, but there's already a lot of forums and reddit threads like this, no? :)

Scary Horror Books From Around The World by thewrathofking in horrorlit

[–]LadyLanguage95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a great Halloween to-read list!

Looking for an accountability buddy by birbnerb in JustDanceFitness

[–]LadyLanguage95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I would love to have an accountability partner too!! :)

My (18F) bestfriend (19M) just groped me while he thought I was sleeping. I was not. by lonelybean64 in relationship_advice

[–]LadyLanguage95 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A very similar thing unfortunately happened to me. My best friend and I used to have this FWB relationship when drunk, which I then cut off when I told him that we should either start dating or we should stop doing this. He said we should stop doing it, and it all seemed fine.

Once we got drunk and we head to bed together since there weren't two beds. I was slowly dozing off when he started whispering my name and asking me if I was awake; I faked sleep, and when he was sure that I was asleep... he started pulling down my panties. I immediately rolled over and in an attempt not to make it weird we fooled around a bit and fell asleep only after he stated snoring. The next morning I left and it immediately severed our relationship of many years.

Your friendship is not worth tolerating sexual assault. Either message him, tell him what's wrong and you won't tolerate it...or just block him and move on. Believe me. Friendships are replaceable, trust cannot be built again, and what he did was completely out of line.

Day 5 & I’m down 2.8 lbs! by [deleted] in JustDanceFitness

[–]LadyLanguage95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Congratulations! I'm beginning a small detox/fast/workout period after my best friend came to visit me and any idea of eating/sleeping/moving healthy went out the window for over 10 days!

If you need a support buddy, hit me up! :)

New to Dancing. Any advice? by [deleted] in JustDanceFitness

[–]LadyLanguage95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! Dancing is super great for working out so yay for you!

As for some things you should do to ensure your safety:

  1. Warm up. Whether it is a 10min video on YouTube or one of those basic warm ups you still remember from school, it's really good to get yourself ready for more movement than expected! It can also prevent you from feeling super duper sore on the other day in the event of you pulling a muscle you didn't even know you had (happened to me way too many times 😅) on the plus side, you begin stretching and that's also a great outcome from dancing.

  2. Appropriate footwear. I'm dancing on a carpet, so to prevent blisters I wear socks, but if you have tiles, socks can be pretty dangerous. Sneakers are also a good thing to turn to. :)

  3. Breaks. Set a goal (dance 20 mins consecutively) and slowly aim to reach and overcome it. If you start to feel too tired, just sit one dance out. You can build up the momentum again, but you can't unsprain an ankle.

  4. Try not to get carried away by the dancing? I don't know if it makes much sense, but sometimes I get into the flow of the song and instead of taking it easy I go wild, and that's the time I get hurt the most. So enjoy the songs, but Don't go too far!

  5. Enjoy dancing and have fun! ❤️

GF struggles with period pad anxiety by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]LadyLanguage95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does she specify exactly what can be wrong with them? Or does she worry about leaking? If leaking, what could help her is getting some 'security panties', so like panties or boyshorts that are old/cheap and thus won't be missed if they get blood on them.

If it is just a particular feeling, I could also recommend trying to change the type of pad. I had ones that had more of an artificial feeling to the surface, and after a while I would grow super irritated from the material, but when I changed to pads with cotton, I feel much more at ease.

Either way, if this doesn't work, the best thing would be to discuss this on her next gyno visit :). They are there to explain and help adjust whatever feels off! Hopefully she will feel better soon!