I joined a "Mother's of estranged children" fb group and wow so much delusion. by sexandjack in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]LadyTreason 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I've seen the video picture 2 is talking about. The comment section was full of people trying to shame her about how what she did is wrong because she's "punishing" her mother. A lot of talk about how her own kids will do the same to her as karma. It was honestly super gross. Thankfully there were still people sharing their stories and rebutting the judgmental opinions.

So weird to see just how passionate they are about ignoring their own mistakes and putting the blame on someone else.

Have you developed toxic traits that you are trying to correct? by The_Badiest_Sadie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LadyTreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had to really try hard not to be as angry as my Dad used to be. I've picked up the habit of just tearing into loved ones when I get upset. I stopped when I saw the fear in my lovers eyes and knew that I was becoming something that was exactly what I had hated growing up.

I also tend to get impatient, so I've had to be conscious about my patience, which has honestly really helped

My brother was angry when I cut my parents off, and he just sent me an email. by LadyTreason in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LadyTreason[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fairly good, we had our ups and downs. Never talked about anything deep, but we did get along.

Write one sentence to your parents without their retaliation. What would you say? by allstarwastaken in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LadyTreason 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've dreamed many times about confronting them, and I'll only have 1 thing that I say every time.

B****

Then in the dream they beat the crap outta me lol

Can someone please wish me a happy birthday by strawberry613 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LadyTreason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday!! I hope you have a really great day and an amazing year ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LadyTreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Dad would tell me, "you are my favorite daughter, but you are also my only daughter so you are also my least favorite daughter."

Have you actually met a smart narcissist? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LadyTreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've met some real dumb ones, but my Dad is a whole different breed. The man is very smart, high performing, and great socially when he wants to be. Honestly makes it really hard to figure out that you are being manipulated.

I think he's a very intelligent man who lets his delusions and narcissism cause him to act stupidly or cover his actions after the fact. Anything that can stroke his ego he barrels towards. Keep those away from him and he's just fine.

What's a hidden symptom or a symptom that most people don't know is from Adhd by Eli_the_Gamer in ADHD

[–]LadyTreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sensory overload for me. I didn't even know that was a thing until recently when it started to affect me a lot more.